"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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do i ask her again

sosousage

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i had sex with her once, she texted me immedietely after i left her home and was instaresponding for the rest of day



i asked long ago if she wants to meet, she agreed then denied 9cuz it was too late


i asked once agani if she wants to meet at X day and she said she has training with ffemale friend
but she said we can meet that day, but it will be calm meeting cuz she has period

i said no then cuz she said it would be uncomfortable for her to have sex on period



do I ask again? will she even ask by herself? or is it lost case

I mean, i asked 2 times in a row and nothing xdd
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marmel75

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Lmao...wow you are really great with this stuff...basically might as well just tell her you have no interest in her other than sex to her face.

Good luck with that, she got the message loud and clear. Unless that is what she wants you have no prayer of another date.

Are guys really this clueless? I mean its hard to fvck things up this bad for me even if im trying.

And yeah i know...you "dont care" except you obviously do since you created a thread to figure out what to do.
 

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Stop chasing this bytch and get more plates.

When you can't walk away, you have a scarcity mindset.
 

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Lmao...wow you are really great with this stuff...basically might as well just tell her you have no interest in her other than sex to her face.

Good luck with that, she got the message loud and clear. Unless that is what she wants you have no prayer of another date.

Are guys really this clueless? I mean its hard to fvck things up this bad for me even if im trying.

And yeah i know...you "dont care" except you obviously do since you created a thread to figure out what to do.
i mean, im 99% sure shes okay with sex relationship only


(she told me all her relationships (not many) were shorter than 3 months and sex based
 

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Dude... she texted you after you fvcked her then you ignored her...

You tried to make a second date and she offered you a counter to meet her during the day and you said no.... Why, well I don;t know why, but it is definitely reasonable that she thinks all you want from her is sex... which turns chicks off.

Never pay attention to what chicks say, only what they do. She 'said' she didn't want relationships... so what. What is she doing? That is what matters. Somehow you are 100% sure she only is interested in sex.... Okay, then why do you suppose she is avoiding you?

Okay... here is what is going on....

either you have completely miss-read what is happening, and she is REALLY like most chicks... in that they like the emotional aspects of intimacy, and do not like being used like a cvm rag.

Or... you just didn't do it for her sexually. Don't take it personal, we can't please all women all the time. Maybe she really is interested in a sex only deal, but if you aren't doing it for her, then she's going to find another living vibrator to get off on.

Having said that.. this is what you do.... Ask her out one more time, and leave the invitation open ended... just tell her to let you know when she is free. If all she is interested in is sex from you, this is what FWB sex only relationships are... you fvck the chick when she wants it. If she won;t settle on a meet up then just move on to the next one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sosousage

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Dude... she texted you after you fvcked her then you ignored her...

You tried to make a second date and she offered you a counter to meet her during the day and you said no.... Why, well I don;t know why, but it is definitely reasonable that she thinks all you want from her is sex... which turns chicks off.

Never pay attention to what chicks say, only what they do. She 'said' she didn't want relationships... so what. What is she doing? That is what matters. Somehow you are 100% sure she only is interested in sex.... Okay, then why do you suppose she is avoiding you?

Okay... here is what is going on....

either you have completely miss-read what is happening, and she is REALLY like most chicks... in that they like the emotional aspects of intimacy, and do not like being used like a cvm rag.

Or... you just didn't do it for her sexually. Don't take it personal, we can't please all women all the time. Maybe she really is interested in a sex only deal, but if you aren't doing it for her, then she's going to find another living vibrator to get off on.

Having said that.. this is what you do.... Ask her out one more time, and leave the invitation open ended... just tell her to let you know when she is free. If all she is interested in is sex from you, this is what FWB sex only relationships are... you fvck the chick when she wants it. If she won;t settle on a meet up then just move on to the next one.
i didnt do well in bed cuz my divk couldnt stay strong. i had problems due to wrong diet with blood. so i just cummed asap and thats it. i think she probably thinks im bad in bed now
 

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i mean, im 99% sure shes okay with sex relationship only


(she told me all her relationships (not many) were shorter than 3 months and sex based
Mistake #1: Listening to a woman's words rather than observing her actions. This applies at all times.
 
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