i talked to a girl today for the first time. we talked for about 10 mins then i told her i had stuff to do. i gave her my number and told her to text me sometime. did i make the right move? i didnt wanna ask for hers and sound needy but then again there are the odds that she never texts me. thoughts/comments?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
do i ask for her number or give her mine?
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