"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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do i ask for her number or give her mine?

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duke104

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i talked to a girl today for the first time. we talked for about 10 mins then i told her i had stuff to do. i gave her my number and told her to text me sometime. did i make the right move? i didnt wanna ask for hers and sound needy but then again there are the odds that she never texts me. thoughts/comments?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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duke104 said:
did i make the right move?
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Wrong move! never give a girl your number (unless you've already fvcked her so good you know for a fact she will come back for more).

And you shouldn't "ask" for it either. Just casually mention it while making vague plans of getting together in the future: "I'm pretty busy with [insert something interesting you're into] but gimme your number and I'll contact you when my schedule gets a little more free..."

Leave it vague but keep a very firm tone, as if you are taking for granted that she will give your her number.

Once you internalize this mindset that every girl you talk to MUST give you her number, getting numbers will be nothing to you.

good luck!
 
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There was no need to give your number to her. You must take her as a granted. You would have treated as you are really a busy person with no spare time and this way you could have created your image. Giving your number to her seems that you have no other work then attending calls.
 
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duke104 said:
...i didnt wanna ask for hers and sound needy...
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Asking for a girls number is NOT needy!! You didn't ask because of your fear of failure.

So all in all, not good!
 
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These guy's chat ****, If you think making it seem like your a busy person makes you attractive then you're wrong. Mate you did okeii, if she calls at least you know you made a mark on her day, if not then tough luck.
Mate there are no strict rules in this gameplay, it's all about understanding that situation and handling it the way you like it and the way it's fun for you mate.
If you're not having fun while doing this then you're not doing it right.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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