i talked to a girl today for the first time. we talked for about 10 mins then i told her i had stuff to do. i gave her my number and told her to text me sometime. did i make the right move? i didnt wanna ask for hers and sound needy but then again there are the odds that she never texts me. thoughts/comments?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
do i ask for her number or give her mine?
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