Do I answer now or wait?

[ApparentlyFromMars]

Quick question here....

I have been seeing some girl that came out of long relationship and it's very clear that she is really into me, she thinks about me all day etc blahblah well since we both weren't sure if we wanted anything serious (commitment etc even though we were commited inn not seeing anyone else...) I told her monday or something that "Cool, spend some time thinking and don't contact me before sunday" or not worded like that but inn a more friendly way...

She managed to hold out until today, she SMSd and IMd me within a few minutes of eachother when I was at Martial arts practice. She knows I must see both of these because she lives at same dorm, she can see my window from hers and I'm pretty sure she knows I just came home 20 minutes ago and have had to have seen IM and SMS....

So do I answer her? Or do I wait until tomorrow when it's sunday? Or actually after midnight for kicks ?

 

[mrExtreme]

If you're so sure she likes you why are you still playing games?

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Don't 'out-DJ' yourself!

 

[CyranoDeBergerac]

High interest and afraid of commitment? Ask her over if possible, or ask her to sneak out and meet you somewhere. Kiss her and tell her that you're sorry if you were out of line but you've been wanting to do that all day. You can make a move here, but do something with her face to face. IM is only good for cyber sex.

 

[Panther]

One lesson I learned in my last few attempts at the whole dating thing, is that you should never assume you've won and give up the DJ act.

For example, in the last occasion is was a girl in my class that was always getting off her way to chat with me while she had barely known me. When i finally decided to get to know her better, she would reply to my emails within minutes of receiving them, and before we met she sent me her number without me asking for it.

So I assumed she's really into me, and didn't bother to do the usual DJ stuff. Next couple of times i told her to meet up, she was busy and didn't counteroffer. Go figure...

So in the future, I will not assume i've got the woman head over heels, and keep playing with her head until after I've gotten her laid...

ThePanther