Do I Add my old Oneitis to my Social Circle?

[nicksaiz65]

My old oneitis has been inviting me to a lot of stuff lately. Like just on some hanging out with friends type shyt. I’ve been going, and I’ve been having a good time. Crazy part is this girl is about to get married.

I wouldn’t be worried about this normally, but 75% of my social circle is graduating this semester. So should I just add her to my social circle or am I being a Blue Pilled Cuck? And is there any chance at all that I could get pvssy out of this you guys think? Or should I just expel the thought from my mind.

 

[Spaz]

U r in the friend zone.

That's clue enough of what to do next.

 

[nicksaiz65]

U r in the friend zone.

That's clue enough of what to do next.

Yeah. Not really much that I can do about that right now unfortunately. I do need to build my social circle. So I’m thinking I’ll just befriend her. If she’s using me for validation, it’s ok cause I’ll just use her for social leverage/proof.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yeah. Not really much that I can do about that right now unfortunately. I do need to build my social circle. So I’m thinking I’ll just befriend her. If she’s using me for validation, it’s ok cause I’ll just use her for social leverage/proof.

It wont be proof cause she hasn't fvck you. Its bad marketing.

 

[nicksaiz65]

It wont be proof cause she hasn't fvck you. Its bad marketing.

That’s not proof? I read somewhere that you can use girls who have friend zoned you to help you get other women because you’re being seen with an attractive girl

 

[mrgoodstuff]

That’s not proof? I read somewhere that you can use girls who have friend zoned you to help you get other women because you’re being seen with an attractive girl

You dont wamt girls who aren't feeling you to rep you. Do you want new girl to give the attention she gives you?

 

[Spaz]

That’s not proof? I read somewhere that you can use girls who have friend zoned you to help you get other women because you’re being seen with an attractive girl

Yes it's proof.

And it puts you in a negative light, once the perception is entrenched, it will be hard to remove.

Do urself a favor, stop being an orbiter to women. You'd do well to be an orbiter of successful men, gaining some valuable tips along the way to finally come out on ur own.

 

[nicksaiz65]

Yes it's proof.

And it puts you in a negative light, once the perception is entrenched, it will be hard to remove.

Do urself a favor, stop being an orbiter to women. You'd do well to be an orbiter of successful men, gaining some valuable tips along the way to finally come out on ur own.

Hm. Okay. Well I’m gonna have to start making some new friends then. So it’d be futile to add her to my social circle then?

 

[Spaz]

Hm. Okay. Well I’m gonna have to start making some new friends then. So it’d be futile to add her to my social circle then?

A man must always do things that's profitable to him.

If there's no profit to be had, why do it?

Edit: U r an intellectual who is passive by birth. There's strength in that. Embrace ur inherent personality, and acquire some manly masculine traits.

If u try to be a dominant, you will fail as you'll come off as a fake.

You'd do VERY well within the "hot" nerdy inclined girls, and able to hold other types once you're learned/acquired masculine traits.

 

[curtsilv]

Are you trying to have sex with her in particular? If you are getting invites and access to parties you wouldn't normally be invited to without her, how could this possibly be a lose? Are there zero attractive women at these parties? Its' better than going out solo; you can talk to other women and when you want to chill and take a break, talk to your friends.

 

[nicksaiz65]

A man must always do things that's profitable to him.

If there's no profit to be had, why do it?

Edit: U r an intellectual who is passive by birth. There's strength in that. Embrace ur inherent personality, and acquire some manly masculine traits.

If u try to be a dominant, you will fail as you'll come off as a fake.

You'd do VERY well within the "hot" nerdy inclined girls, and able to hold other types once you're learned/acquired masculine traits.

Honestly, having a hot nerdy girl would be amazing. I’m currently working on one at the moment lol

 

[nicksaiz65]

Are you trying to have sex with her in particular? If you are getting invites and access to parties you wouldn't normally be invited to without her, how could this possibly be a lose? Are there zero attractive women at these parties? Its' better than going out solo; you can talk to other women and when you want to chill and take a break, talk to your friends.

I don’t really care about trying to fvck her anymore. I considered it because that would give me access to new parties and I’d have some buddies to go bar hopping with. I was thinking it might be good because having a decent social circle is critical for being a good Don Juan imo. And she could be a good pivot

 

[mrgoodstuff]

You cant use her cause shes not even Luke warm for you. Women are herd. So other women will gain her mindset. Its just like my ex wives always **** blocking or fvcking up someone mindset

 

[Spaz]

How many ex-wives u got goodstuff?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

How many ex-wives u got goodstuff?

3. I was a married bachelor. Changed it up for the 3rd wife tried to be loyal. She showed me what being married to a American bridezilla is all about. My first two were good women.

 

[Spaz]

3. I was a married bachelor. Changed it up for the 3rd wife tried to be loyal. She showed me what being married to a American bridezilla is all about. My first two were good women.

Now that's quite a story there to talk and laugh with some dudes over beer

The crazy shiet we do in our past is exciting stuff haha

 

[curtsilv]

This thread is a little crazy because nick seems to be at the start of the game, but is getting advice from much older guys who seem to have had lots of bad, even deeply scarring relationship experiences and have become burned out and cynical. No offense to them, but there's a huge mismatch in mindsets here.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

This thread is a little crazy because nick seems to be at the start of the game, but is getting advice from much older guys who seem to have had lots of bad, even deeply scarring relationship experiences and have become burned out and cynical. No offense to them, but there's a huge mismatch in mindsets here.

I was just saying his social circle should be filled with women who thinks hes hot. Having mostly lukewarm or women who wont fvck him hurts him. New women who come around them will adopt their mindset. This is how it works.

 

[curtsilv]

I was just saying his social circle should be filled with women who thinks hes hot. Having mostly lukewarm or women who wont fvck him hurts him. New women who come around them will adopt their mindset. This is how it works.

Sure, this would be ideal. In a perfect world.

I'm gonna take a leap here, but nick says she is a former oneitis. The interest level is not mutual. He's likely just starting out in the game if the types of questions he's asking are any indication. It seems reasonable to conclude that he isn't especially good looking. If he is somewhere in the amorphous range of average or a little bit above or below average, which is the safe bet statistically speaking, the reality is, he's not going to have a lot of women who will show overt signs of sexual interest.

Without information on what he looks like, or how cool women think he is (maybe he's a sports star or rich kid and high status), then it's unreasonable to assume he has unlimited dating options, which is the assumption you're making.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Sure, this would be ideal. In a perfect world.

I'm gonna take a leap here, but nick says she is a former oneitis. The interest level is not mutual. He's likely just starting out in the game if the types of questions he's asking are any indication. It seems reasonable to conclude that he isn't especially good looking. If he is somewhere in the amorphous range of average or a little bit above or below average, which is the safe bet statistically speaking, the reality is, he's not going to have a lot of women who will show overt signs of sexual interest.

Without information on what he looks like, or how cool women think he is (maybe he's a sports star or rich kid and high status), then it's unreasonable to assume he has unlimited dating options, which is the assumption you're making.

If shes a cool chick that puts in a good word and makes women have favor for him great. If she thinks shes too cool and looks down ypon him as a child and wont help him she can only hurt. Some really cool chicks like you alot and put in a good word.