Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do hot girls get dumped?

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Warrior74

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Yes. By men who have higher status than them and can pull better women than them. With hot girls (in my experience) it boils down to how she behaves. If she gets *****y and entitled around a high status male who has a backbone, she might get a chance or two extra before she gets the boot. Some smuck who worships her will put up with all sorts of outrageous behavior just to keep a hot girl, and don't think they don't know it.
 

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I personally know a very hot girl who got cheated on and then dumped by a guy who isn't exactly a high status male (ugly mofo, in poor shape, sh!tty part time job, not that hot property with other women) yet still came back to him.

Keep in mind the old wisdom: every hot girl has at least a guy who's sick of putting up with her sh!t in exchange for sex.
 
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There is a woman somewhere on this forum, why don't you ask her? Everyone gets thier heart broke at least one time, even hot girls.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ask my 9.5 ex. I dumped her on her ass four years ago, and she still begs for me back. I believe I am the only guy who's done this to her though.
 

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horaholic said:
Ask my 9.5 ex. I dumped her on her ass four years ago, and she still begs for me back. I believe I am the only guy who's done this to her though.
which explains her behavior. I'm curious if you were to ever get back with her whether or not she'd dump you afterwards, just so she feels that she's better than you.
 

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horaholic said:
Ask my 9.5 ex. I dumped her on her ass four years ago, and she still begs for me back. I believe I am the only guy who's done this to her though.
After four years she still wants you back? Talk about her low self esteem. In my book, shes a 5.
 

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Hot girls do get dumped, when they become clingy, needy, go through your stuff when you are not around.... and a number of other reasons.

Its the same as hot guys getting dumped for being selfish in bed, clingy, spineless, cheating... and a lot of other reasons.
 

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Cinamon said:
Hot girls do get dumped, when they become clingy, needy, go through your stuff when you are not around.... and a number of other reasons.

Its the same as hot guys getting dumped for being selfish in bed, clingy, spineless, cheating... and a lot of other reasons.
Oh come on,have you ever heard a guy complaining that his got girlfriend is too needy?
Men likes women that are needy cause they never say no and dont try to steal any power from them.
Same for cheating,very few men have been left from their women for cheating,instead they gained points and social proof while showing he can get other women while the we all know about what happen in the opposite option.
An other demostration that men and women are not equal.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Son_of_anarchy, you're basically extremely wrong. I fvcking hate clingy girls, and I have dumped girls for it.

Listen to what Warrior and Cinamon said. It IS all about how she behaves. It's mainly clingy, demanding, selfish, bratty behavior etc (which largely fall under the same category). I've dumped girls for getting clingy and feeling entitled to my time (i.e. *****ing if i don't hang out with her on demand). I've also got close friends who have dumped girls for being clingy and whiney *****es who basically get on your nerves 5x a day.

I usually give it a few chances but eventually it begins to run you down. The last thing you need is a ball-and-chain or at least a girl who provides nothing but a headache when you're not fulfilling your agenda.
 

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Son of anarchy said:
Oh come on,have you ever heard a guy complaining that his hot girlfriend is too needy?
For example:

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,396021,00.html

Lance Armstrong dumped Kate Hudson because she was too needy. According to him, "Kate was way too desperate, a woman who clearly can't be on her own without a man in her life at all times.''
 

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horaholic said:
Ask my 9.5 ex. I dumped her on her ass four years ago, and she still begs for me back. I believe I am the only guy who's done this to her though.

me too, me too. It blew her mind.
 

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Happens all the time - I've done it a couple of times myself. One time was a really hot coworker at a large factory I was contracting at a few years ago. I ended up getting a renewed contract at the same place about two years after the breakup. First week I saw her in the hallway walking the other way with a handful of documents. I tried to ignore her but she gave me the dirtiest look I've ever received in my life.

I already told my son (he's 18) that before he marries he needs to date a real hottie that drives him nuts, then break it off. I think it's important - the whole DJ premise is not to be intimidated by looks.

This thread reminds me of that Guns and Roses song "I used to love her but I had to kill her......and I can still hear her complain..."
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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