Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do hot girls get dumped?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Warrior74

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Yes. By men who have higher status than them and can pull better women than them. With hot girls (in my experience) it boils down to how she behaves. If she gets *****y and entitled around a high status male who has a backbone, she might get a chance or two extra before she gets the boot. Some smuck who worships her will put up with all sorts of outrageous behavior just to keep a hot girl, and don't think they don't know it.
 

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I personally know a very hot girl who got cheated on and then dumped by a guy who isn't exactly a high status male (ugly mofo, in poor shape, sh!tty part time job, not that hot property with other women) yet still came back to him.

Keep in mind the old wisdom: every hot girl has at least a guy who's sick of putting up with her sh!t in exchange for sex.
 
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There is a woman somewhere on this forum, why don't you ask her? Everyone gets thier heart broke at least one time, even hot girls.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ask my 9.5 ex. I dumped her on her ass four years ago, and she still begs for me back. I believe I am the only guy who's done this to her though.
 

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horaholic said:
Ask my 9.5 ex. I dumped her on her ass four years ago, and she still begs for me back. I believe I am the only guy who's done this to her though.
which explains her behavior. I'm curious if you were to ever get back with her whether or not she'd dump you afterwards, just so she feels that she's better than you.
 

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horaholic said:
Ask my 9.5 ex. I dumped her on her ass four years ago, and she still begs for me back. I believe I am the only guy who's done this to her though.
After four years she still wants you back? Talk about her low self esteem. In my book, shes a 5.
 

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Hot girls do get dumped, when they become clingy, needy, go through your stuff when you are not around.... and a number of other reasons.

Its the same as hot guys getting dumped for being selfish in bed, clingy, spineless, cheating... and a lot of other reasons.
 

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Cinamon said:
Hot girls do get dumped, when they become clingy, needy, go through your stuff when you are not around.... and a number of other reasons.

Its the same as hot guys getting dumped for being selfish in bed, clingy, spineless, cheating... and a lot of other reasons.
Oh come on,have you ever heard a guy complaining that his got girlfriend is too needy?
Men likes women that are needy cause they never say no and dont try to steal any power from them.
Same for cheating,very few men have been left from their women for cheating,instead they gained points and social proof while showing he can get other women while the we all know about what happen in the opposite option.
An other demostration that men and women are not equal.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Son_of_anarchy, you're basically extremely wrong. I fvcking hate clingy girls, and I have dumped girls for it.

Listen to what Warrior and Cinamon said. It IS all about how she behaves. It's mainly clingy, demanding, selfish, bratty behavior etc (which largely fall under the same category). I've dumped girls for getting clingy and feeling entitled to my time (i.e. *****ing if i don't hang out with her on demand). I've also got close friends who have dumped girls for being clingy and whiney *****es who basically get on your nerves 5x a day.

I usually give it a few chances but eventually it begins to run you down. The last thing you need is a ball-and-chain or at least a girl who provides nothing but a headache when you're not fulfilling your agenda.
 

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Son of anarchy said:
Oh come on,have you ever heard a guy complaining that his hot girlfriend is too needy?
For example:

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,396021,00.html

Lance Armstrong dumped Kate Hudson because she was too needy. According to him, "Kate was way too desperate, a woman who clearly can't be on her own without a man in her life at all times.''
 

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horaholic said:
Ask my 9.5 ex. I dumped her on her ass four years ago, and she still begs for me back. I believe I am the only guy who's done this to her though.

me too, me too. It blew her mind.
 

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Happens all the time - I've done it a couple of times myself. One time was a really hot coworker at a large factory I was contracting at a few years ago. I ended up getting a renewed contract at the same place about two years after the breakup. First week I saw her in the hallway walking the other way with a handful of documents. I tried to ignore her but she gave me the dirtiest look I've ever received in my life.

I already told my son (he's 18) that before he marries he needs to date a real hottie that drives him nuts, then break it off. I think it's important - the whole DJ premise is not to be intimidated by looks.

This thread reminds me of that Guns and Roses song "I used to love her but I had to kill her......and I can still hear her complain..."
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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