"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do HBs Party anymore?????

animal crackers

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Alright, so this past week I've gone to a party almost every night, and I've been very dissappointed with the quality/quantity of HBs there.

The best guy/girl ratio was 50/50 and that was only once. It's not usually a sausage fest, but where do all the hot girls go at night? Am I just not going to the right parties, or do HBs just all go clubbing every night.


Thoughts? Is it just me?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Movin on up

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When you turn 21, Ill show you a place called 115 Bourbon Street, at 115th and Kedzie RIGHT south of chicago. Some of the most gorgeous women you will ever see in your life. Thursday nights = Ladies night.
 

Nexxus

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here we have to be 21 but noone checks ID :D so I'm 16 and enter 3 differrent clubs very often
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Holland

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over here (Holland).

There are more HB in trendy clubs then in other sort of clubs like with live bands, metal and all that ****.
 

RedPill

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Animal, you are not going to the right parties. Hot chicks definitely party. In my experience (and I've been out of school for 2 years now) this is how it goes.

Bars:

Typical tavern-style bar - Ocassional HB walks through door.
Hottest girls are always the bartenders.

Bar w/ dance floor - More HB than regular bar but they're always with some massive group.

Trendy club - Plenty of girls here. You can bet the ones that are there like to go clubbing all the time. Usually college aged.

Parties:

Ghetto/college house party - There are never many opportunities here, the ratios are the worst of anywhere. I'm guessing this is where you've been all week.

Nice house parties - Usually in someone's parents house or the rich kids' places at school. Better looking girls in college are at these.

Okay I think, and this is purely an educated guess on my part based on observation, that the greatest concentration of HBs is in places where money/exclusivity is a factor. For example, people's beach houses, cottages on a lake, downtown clubs where there is a large cover and transportation is expensive, house parties in the richest parts of town. Getting into these is difficult though if you don't come from a background of wealth.

In my opinion there is an extremely strong correlation between wealth (perceived or real) and physical attractiveness. I think most people are in denial about this.

What do you guys think?
 

MetalFortress

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Originally posted by RedPill

In my opinion there is an extremely strong correlation between wealth (perceived or real) and physical attractiveness. I think most people are in denial about this.

What do you guys think?
Yep. There's definitely a reason why a Washington/Oregon 10 is a California 7, and so on.
 

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Originally posted by RedPill
Animal, you are not going to the right parties. Hot chicks definitely party. In my experience (and I've been out of school for 2 years now) this is how it goes.

Bars:

Typical tavern-style bar - Ocassional HB walks through door.
Hottest girls are always the bartenders.

Bar w/ dance floor - More HB than regular bar but they're always with some massive group.

Trendy club - Plenty of girls here. You can bet the ones that are there like to go clubbing all the time. Usually college aged.

Parties:

Ghetto/college house party - There are never many opportunities here, the ratios are the worst of anywhere. I'm guessing this is where you've been all week.

Nice house parties - Usually in someone's parents house or the rich kids' places at school. Better looking girls in college are at these.

Okay I think, and this is purely an educated guess on my part based on observation, that the greatest concentration of HBs is in places where money/exclusivity is a factor. For example, people's beach houses, cottages on a lake, downtown clubs where there is a large cover and transportation is expensive, house parties in the richest parts of town. Getting into these is difficult though if you don't come from a background of wealth.

In my opinion there is an extremely strong correlation between wealth (perceived or real) and physical attractiveness. I think most people are in denial about this.

What do you guys think?
That might be the best night scene breakdown, in the history of the best night scene breakdowns I've ever seen.
 

christz

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Originally posted by RedPill
Animal, you are not going to the right parties. Hot chicks definitely party. In my experience (and I've been out of school for 2 years now) this is how it goes.

Bars:

Typical tavern-style bar - Ocassional HB walks through door.
Hottest girls are always the bartenders.

Bar w/ dance floor - More HB than regular bar but they're always with some massive group.

Trendy club - Plenty of girls here. You can bet the ones that are there like to go clubbing all the time. Usually college aged.

Parties:

Ghetto/college house party - There are never many opportunities here, the ratios are the worst of anywhere. I'm guessing this is where you've been all week.

Nice house parties - Usually in someone's parents house or the rich kids' places at school. Better looking girls in college are at these.

Okay I think, and this is purely an educated guess on my part based on observation, that the greatest concentration of HBs is in places where money/exclusivity is a factor. For example, people's beach houses, cottages on a lake, downtown clubs where there is a large cover and transportation is expensive, house parties in the richest parts of town. Getting into these is difficult though if you don't come from a background of wealth.

In my opinion there is an extremely strong correlation between wealth (perceived or real) and physical attractiveness. I think most people are in denial about this.

What do you guys think?
this needs to go in the bible, because damn is it accurate
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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