Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do HBs Party anymore?????

animal crackers

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Alright, so this past week I've gone to a party almost every night, and I've been very dissappointed with the quality/quantity of HBs there.

The best guy/girl ratio was 50/50 and that was only once. It's not usually a sausage fest, but where do all the hot girls go at night? Am I just not going to the right parties, or do HBs just all go clubbing every night.


Thoughts? Is it just me?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Movin on up

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When you turn 21, Ill show you a place called 115 Bourbon Street, at 115th and Kedzie RIGHT south of chicago. Some of the most gorgeous women you will ever see in your life. Thursday nights = Ladies night.
 

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here we have to be 21 but noone checks ID :D so I'm 16 and enter 3 differrent clubs very often
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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over here (Holland).

There are more HB in trendy clubs then in other sort of clubs like with live bands, metal and all that ****.
 

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Animal, you are not going to the right parties. Hot chicks definitely party. In my experience (and I've been out of school for 2 years now) this is how it goes.

Bars:

Typical tavern-style bar - Ocassional HB walks through door.
Hottest girls are always the bartenders.

Bar w/ dance floor - More HB than regular bar but they're always with some massive group.

Trendy club - Plenty of girls here. You can bet the ones that are there like to go clubbing all the time. Usually college aged.

Parties:

Ghetto/college house party - There are never many opportunities here, the ratios are the worst of anywhere. I'm guessing this is where you've been all week.

Nice house parties - Usually in someone's parents house or the rich kids' places at school. Better looking girls in college are at these.

Okay I think, and this is purely an educated guess on my part based on observation, that the greatest concentration of HBs is in places where money/exclusivity is a factor. For example, people's beach houses, cottages on a lake, downtown clubs where there is a large cover and transportation is expensive, house parties in the richest parts of town. Getting into these is difficult though if you don't come from a background of wealth.

In my opinion there is an extremely strong correlation between wealth (perceived or real) and physical attractiveness. I think most people are in denial about this.

What do you guys think?
 

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Originally posted by RedPill

In my opinion there is an extremely strong correlation between wealth (perceived or real) and physical attractiveness. I think most people are in denial about this.

What do you guys think?
Yep. There's definitely a reason why a Washington/Oregon 10 is a California 7, and so on.
 

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Originally posted by RedPill
Animal, you are not going to the right parties. Hot chicks definitely party. In my experience (and I've been out of school for 2 years now) this is how it goes.

Bars:

Typical tavern-style bar - Ocassional HB walks through door.
Hottest girls are always the bartenders.

Bar w/ dance floor - More HB than regular bar but they're always with some massive group.

Trendy club - Plenty of girls here. You can bet the ones that are there like to go clubbing all the time. Usually college aged.

Parties:

Ghetto/college house party - There are never many opportunities here, the ratios are the worst of anywhere. I'm guessing this is where you've been all week.

Nice house parties - Usually in someone's parents house or the rich kids' places at school. Better looking girls in college are at these.

Okay I think, and this is purely an educated guess on my part based on observation, that the greatest concentration of HBs is in places where money/exclusivity is a factor. For example, people's beach houses, cottages on a lake, downtown clubs where there is a large cover and transportation is expensive, house parties in the richest parts of town. Getting into these is difficult though if you don't come from a background of wealth.

In my opinion there is an extremely strong correlation between wealth (perceived or real) and physical attractiveness. I think most people are in denial about this.

What do you guys think?
That might be the best night scene breakdown, in the history of the best night scene breakdowns I've ever seen.
 

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Originally posted by RedPill
Animal, you are not going to the right parties. Hot chicks definitely party. In my experience (and I've been out of school for 2 years now) this is how it goes.

Bars:

Typical tavern-style bar - Ocassional HB walks through door.
Hottest girls are always the bartenders.

Bar w/ dance floor - More HB than regular bar but they're always with some massive group.

Trendy club - Plenty of girls here. You can bet the ones that are there like to go clubbing all the time. Usually college aged.

Parties:

Ghetto/college house party - There are never many opportunities here, the ratios are the worst of anywhere. I'm guessing this is where you've been all week.

Nice house parties - Usually in someone's parents house or the rich kids' places at school. Better looking girls in college are at these.

Okay I think, and this is purely an educated guess on my part based on observation, that the greatest concentration of HBs is in places where money/exclusivity is a factor. For example, people's beach houses, cottages on a lake, downtown clubs where there is a large cover and transportation is expensive, house parties in the richest parts of town. Getting into these is difficult though if you don't come from a background of wealth.

In my opinion there is an extremely strong correlation between wealth (perceived or real) and physical attractiveness. I think most people are in denial about this.

What do you guys think?
this needs to go in the bible, because damn is it accurate
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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