"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do guys or girls make better best friend?

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They said that it depends on what you want. If you want a sympathetic ear then you want a woman. If you want an honest and direct evaluator of your issue then you want a guy. If you don't mind your friend gossiping about what you just confided in them then you want a woman. If you don't mind your friend forgetting what you just told them, then you want a guy.

Guys do you AGREE with this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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A good mix will do, allows you to have a better perspective.
 
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One close girl friend and one close guy friend is what I have. It seems to be a perfect combination. Im a freshmen in college btw and just started school.

My girl friend introduces and talks me up to her friends and aquantences. She legitly goes out looking to find a girl for me sometimes. We often joke about this odd relationship after I do her a favor(such as pretending to be her boyfriend to get rid of a guy. haha), that she owes me a vagina in the near future.

The guy friend is my wingman and to bounce ideas off. We keep each other level headed and down to earth.



I agree with your analysis too; in the end I say having both is best.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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