"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Do guys or girls make better best friend?

C

Chad Sawyer

New Member
Joined
Sep 15, 2009
Messages
3
Reaction score
0
They said that it depends on what you want. If you want a sympathetic ear then you want a woman. If you want an honest and direct evaluator of your issue then you want a guy. If you don't mind your friend gossiping about what you just confided in them then you want a woman. If you don't mind your friend forgetting what you just told them, then you want a guy.

Guys do you AGREE with this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Z

ZenGodMod

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jan 23, 2008
Messages
297
Reaction score
11
A good mix will do, allows you to have a better perspective.
 
S

Scar Tissue

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 28, 2009
Messages
70
Reaction score
3
Location
city of angels
One close girl friend and one close guy friend is what I have. It seems to be a perfect combination. Im a freshmen in college btw and just started school.

My girl friend introduces and talks me up to her friends and aquantences. She legitly goes out looking to find a girl for me sometimes. We often joke about this odd relationship after I do her a favor(such as pretending to be her boyfriend to get rid of a guy. haha), that she owes me a vagina in the near future.

The guy friend is my wingman and to bounce ideas off. We keep each other level headed and down to earth.



I agree with your analysis too; in the end I say having both is best.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top