Do guys ever really recover from their insecurities dealing with pickup?

[Brown Spice]

I am insecure about my ethnic appearance (Tunisian but look South Asian) stopping me from hooking up with women who are White. Now I grew up in Georgia and currently live in Tennessee but I have found that the deep south is the absolute worst place in the world to be if you want to date White women, especially the attractive ones.

Now I have seen some Black men down here have success but it isn't common, I have never seen a Brown guy whether he be Latino, Indian, or Middle Eastern have success with White women. Never seen an Asian guy have any success either.

Soon I will be heading to graduate school but it has bothered me a bit. I have read game material and had success with Latina, mixed race, and Brown girls but my ideal woman would have to be a blonde. Yet I feel that the ones down here in general don't want anything to do with a minority, in some cases a small number might like Black men but all other races are toast.

It has hurt my inner game and made me insecure, any suggestions on how I can get over it and where in the world I can go to for success?

 

[Jeremyabolade23]

lies, Black men have it just as bad as you do. Make yourself as white as possible (i.e dress, hair etc), then try your luck. To be honest, most of the guys who get the hottest girls were either white/hispanic.

 

[SirFratserlot]

black men have it harder

 

[1-800-HellNo]

black men have it harder

Not in California.
this isn't coming from a place of jealousy, just an observation.

A black guy at a party of mainly whites will be the most popular guy there.
All girls want to get with him, and all other guys stock automatically decreases as soon as one walks in the door.

maybe it's rappers being the forefront of mainstream entertainment, or just the fact that it makes girls feel "edgy" to be with one.

idk. but it's definitely a reality.

 

[SirFratserlot]

depends on the location, but the locations are either hit or miss. Most of them being misses obviously. I'd much rather prefer a neutral setting.