"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I am insecure about my ethnic appearance (Tunisian but look South Asian) stopping me from hooking up with women who are White. Now I grew up in Georgia and currently live in Tennessee but I have found that the deep south is the absolute worst place in the world to be if you want to date White women, especially the attractive ones.

Now I have seen some Black men down here have success but it isn't common, I have never seen a Brown guy whether he be Latino, Indian, or Middle Eastern have success with White women. Never seen an Asian guy have any success either.

Soon I will be heading to graduate school but it has bothered me a bit. I have read game material and had success with Latina, mixed race, and Brown girls but my ideal woman would have to be a blonde. Yet I feel that the ones down here in general don't want anything to do with a minority, in some cases a small number might like Black men but all other races are toast.

It has hurt my inner game and made me insecure, any suggestions on how I can get over it and where in the world I can go to for success?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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lies, Black men have it just as bad as you do. Make yourself as white as possible (i.e dress, hair etc), then try your luck. To be honest, most of the guys who get the hottest girls were either white/hispanic.
 
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SirFratserlot said:
black men have it harder
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Not in California.
this isn't coming from a place of jealousy, just an observation.

A black guy at a party of mainly whites will be the most popular guy there.
All girls want to get with him, and all other guys stock automatically decreases as soon as one walks in the door.

maybe it's rappers being the forefront of mainstream entertainment, or just the fact that it makes girls feel "edgy" to be with one.

idk. but it's definitely a reality.
 
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depends on the location, but the locations are either hit or miss. Most of them being misses obviously. I'd much rather prefer a neutral setting.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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