Do Goth Girls need to be DJ'd any differently??

[Mr.Fantastic]

Hi,

I am going for a drink with a girl who is a bit on the gothic side (dark makeup, pale face) in a couple of days and was wondering if anybody has had any experience of goths and what to look out for, how to act?

thanks

 

[S1NN3R]

Just work off of whatever type of approach you used to procure the date to begin with. Not all goth girls are the same, some are hardcore emo kiddos who want to be bitten on the neck and drink nothing but red wine, others just like the look and may be rather normal otherwise. You know her better than we do.

I knew one goth girl named Kristen who would chide me because I didn't want to let her cut me with a razor, but another named Shelley who looked even more goth that Kristen, but liked to listen to Simon and Garfunkel and watched Saturday morning cartoons every week. They're all different.

 

[BOWIE]

Yea, as sinner said, they're all different. I have dated a LOT of goth girls and I find that the best approach is to be modest and not let yourself seem too confident. Most goths are insecure so you being too confident will make them even more insecure. Start soft. Act really down to earth, have some kind of tragic background (your fiance' died, or your parents used to torture you as a kid, etc.), and take the lead after the first couple of dates because many of these girls will get dominant if you don't take the bull by the horns.