My friend was telling me tonight that girls that have a high pitch kiddy voice meaning girls 19 and above have had a trouble past like something tramatic happening to them. Is this true? he said he heard it in his psychology class?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Originally posted by Egoist
yo guys..
uhm, it is an empirically proven fact that those women who went through something veyr traumatic (abuse, rape, etc) at an early age retain the high "childish" pitch of voice.
this has been proven over and over and over in the past couple of decades by serious psych research.
I, too, was an avid listener to the show, up until recent when Adam Carolla left the show. Adam and Drew are experts of the human voice, having done the show for decades. They can tell just by someone’s voice if they are a virgin, a stoner, a meth addict, depressed, or most commonly if they were physically or sexually abused as a kid. They thoroughly and consistently demonstrated over the years, probably during every show, you are your voice. As for the baby voice, every female caller who had a baby voice answered in the affirmative when asked the question of if they were sexually abused as a kid—no exceptions.SL1000R:
I've heard the same thing...I used to listen to the radio program called love-line and doctor drew, always knew when a woman had a tramatic past due to her voice
Originally posted by Mintyfresh
its only stupid to assume that every woman with a high pitched voice has a troubled past
its intelligent to be open to the possibility that some of these girls brains could've developed the speech patterns from the negative stimulation in thier pasts
put it this way, do you belive that the atom is the smallest particle of matter? Of course you do, but are you open to the possibility that theres smaller parts of an atom that phase in and out of existance constantly?
basicly "nobody knows for sure" on both accounts
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
And as for...General Caller Betting
Without talking to a caller for more than 15-20 seconds Dr. Drew and Carolla would put them on hold and place $1 bets on the caller's past. The theory being that they have fielded so many calls by so many people that they could hear the specific problem in the caller's voice and detect what events led to their present. Example:
Caller: I'm just depressed all the time.
Carolla: I can hear the little girl voice, Drew. Are you thinking what I'm thinking?
Drew: My wife has my wallet. I'm good for the dollar.
Carolla: I'm going with...father, no no, a weird Uncle touched her at the age of...9.
Drew: I hear molestation too, but I'm going with kid-on-kid. This was someone she played with. Maybe a year or two younger.
Carolla: Caller?
Caller: My best friend in 3rd grade forced me to touch her repeatedly.
On the surface this sounds rather callous, but the reason they did it is worth noting. It's designed to show people that their problems are not unique. Hundreds of people have had this same problem and it manfests in a very reliable, detectable way in their voice.
They were extremely accurate in their predictions.
True, it was a great show. The callers and their questions were horrible and boring, but I loved listening for Adam’s rants and insights in life and for Drew’s encyclopedic medical knowledge.SL1000R:
Yeah, the show when downhill once Adam Carolla left...and thats when I quit listening...Its Too bad, was a great show.
Originally posted by Deep Dish
They can tell just by someone’s voice if they are a virgin, a stoner, a meth addict, depressed, or most commonly if they were physically or sexually abused as a kid.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.