Do Girls Only Want To Have Sex ??

[xterminal01]

I know there is some true players out there
if somone could answer my question it would be tight...
In the last couplse of weeks, i have been going out alot and
every time i meet a chick, she invites me the same night to her place like "Can you drive me to my place my friends already left".
Anyways I end up at their place and all is fun... afterwards tho they ask for my number or i just give it to them and they never call...even tho they seem really into me
I am not complaining or anything but what is wrong with the chicks nowadays? i had atleast 5 one night stands in the last 3 weeks and none of them called.....?????


Am i messing up somewhere?

 

[C-Damage]

harsh mate...perhaps your looking in the wrong place? Did you meet all these girls at the same/similar palces?

...where was this?

 

[AMF]

A woman that wants sex?? Without accusing you of "using her" and/or stalking you for weeks after??

Three words:

DREAM


COME


TRUE

 

[squirrels]

If you're looking for a girl worth a longer-term relationship, stop looking in clubs and bars. These places are known for being pick-up joints. Not saying you can't find a "good girl" there, but let's just say your chances go down. ESPECIALLY if they're approaching YOU and you don't have the guts to engage THEM.

 

[Dirtheart]

Some women are like that, some aren't. It's as simple as that.

If you're picking up women in clubs or bars without getting to know each other, it's quite unlikely you'll get more than a fling. If you want a relationship you are best looking elsewhere for women, such as work, hobby groups, college/uni and places where you can have a (sober) conversation and get to know each other.

As a guideline, a woman who sleeps with a guy she has just met is not relationship material.

 

[Sart]

man

I agree with DREAM COME TRUE. What is this obsession with relationships. I had four long term relationships, the last one being 11 years of marriage. I still love my wife but almost as a brother these days. My advice would "live it up" because eventually one will want more, the what do you do?

There is not 1 person for everyone, there is 5000 people for everyone, its just timing and stage of life.

Another thing, you can truly love someone and never consumate that love. Its one of the things they dont tell you. Once you are married or in a relationship women go crazy for you. Do you really believe that there is ONE soul mate out there somewhere? Thats Hollywood bull****, most marriages are compromise and comfort, when that starts to die you have kids for a diversion.

Sorry if I sound jaded, I just cant understand why people are so hung up on settleing and commitment. They say divorce should be harder, I believe marriage should be harder.

One day you will long for your wilder, oat sowing days, so enjoy them and dont be in such a rush to end them.

 

[Hot Ice]

Bah, you look from bars, you get chicks that want sex.
And usually only sex.

Chicks go to bars sex in their minds generally.


If you look chicks outside bars you might even find women who don't have sex their first priority.



Ps. Funny how this "women who have much sex are *****s" attitude is so deep in us. Even it's just cultural thing.
I'm usually even disguisted when I see an easy woman.
And we men can do what the fukk we want and only get credit...
Well, well, that's the world.

 

[DJoystick DJango]

Encore performance ...

No offence ment XT1 but...

How is your "performance" department ? Do you leave them with any reason to want an encore performance with you or is it that you are no different that all the other guys shes tried.

Off the top of my head am guessing you are messing up on several points. Prolly too many NO's :

- Did she c*m before you did ?
- Did she c*m more times than you ?
- Did you cuddle before leaving ?
- Did she nail you during pillow talk ?
- Does she know your income-bracket ?
- Did you intrigue her at all in anyway so that she "feels" a need to find out more about you ?

Basically you are no more fun to her than she can get from her next "ride home".
Post some thoroug details about your typical ONS and will get some detail critique on whats wrong and what to do about it.

-JJ

 

[xterminal01]

Most of the time it is just night clubs.
And yes many girls do just come and some even just ask for sex directly. Its not like i am directly looking for a relationship
but why wouldnt they call again for another "thang"?

Its like i F*Ckd up somehwere thats for sure !!

 

[DJ_Dork]

Girls use the idea of sex to lure men into relationships. Most like it of course but can go without it.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

Yes,alot of them do. Especially if your in HS/College/ or just your 20's in general.

 

[dockta]

While you are having your way with her..... ask if she likes it up the Poop-Shoot.... if she says no.. but says she wants to try it... that means she "may" like you.....

Otherwise... stop trying to pick up Tramps in clubs... venture out to a more refined setting, where refined women are likely to hang out.