"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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do girls miss guys?

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I've come to believe they don't. So why do guys always seem to be pining away for them and they could give two sh*ts?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I doubt they would for any guy on this site, but they do.
 
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cNfny

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Haha. But knowing how attraction works and the downfall of it. Why would they miss any ex guy?
 
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Of course they do, if she really likes/loves the guy. What the hell is wrong with people on this site?
 
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I'm talkin about after a guy's demise and the attraction is lost. It just seems like they miss a guy for how they make them feel not for him as a person.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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cNfny said:
I've come to believe they don't. So why do guys always seem to be pining away for them and they could give two sh*ts?
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You should hang out with more women during lunch, you think that we have it bad...
 
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Only when the guy they opt out on you for drops them.
 
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They do but it really depends on the guy. Belive me, if you come to this site shes not missing ya. Keep in mind they usually have a larger social network too, so if they miss one guy they can just as easily hang out with another one. Still they are more emotional so when they do miss a guy, it'll hit them a lot harder than most guys.
 
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so she probably wouldn't miss someone she left?

in the case of depleted attraction, do they show they missed the guy later if it so happens?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If she has a reason to miss him, she will.
 
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Women miss and need guys a lot more than the other way around in my experience. An inordinate amount of their time and self worth are determined by the men in their lives.
 
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Women miss and need guys a lot more than the other way around in my experience. An inordinate amount of their time and self worth are determined by the men in their lives.
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I agree with this statement, but I disagree with another statement.

If you visit this site then most likely she is not missing you.

While I agree with that statement, if you are a first time visitor, then yes, she will not be missing you. If you are a member that has been here for a while, then most likely she may very well be missing you.

I am only here because I am trying to help out the newbie members.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
You should hang out with more women during lunch, you think that we have it bad...
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What do you mean, specifically
 
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He means you should listen to the stories of the crushes girls get compared to guys, they fall a lot harder because they are a lot more emotional.

Just get to know some girls, and you'll see how much they obsess.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I think people here do too much reading and not enoguh actual hanging with girls. (That wasn't directed at everyone). If I sign on MSN I'm almost guarenteed to have at least 5 girls online who have "OMG MISSING YOU SO MUCH, LOVE HURTS :(" in their names... (sorry to sue MSN as an example)
 
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haha the topics around here never seem to amaze me. Some of you guys really are lost.:confused: Seriosuly instead of coming here asking questions about what u should do simply get real authentic confidence and live your life to the fullest. Life isn't a scripted event, it's your life. Live, laugh, love and be confident in yourself. The rest just comes natural. Yet so many fools will never realize this.:kick:
 
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Oh, I'm quite sure my ex misses me, in fact, she told me.

She's not really LTR material though, so I'm just enjoying the time now when the tables are turned :D

Girls do miss guys, but there must be an attraction first, otherwise, there is nothing to miss.
 
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Aenigma said:
What do you mean, specifically
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Hang out with more women and listen to what they talk about. Believe it or not, most women spend a heck of a lot of time obsessing over what they think their guy is doing/thinking/believing. More times than not they're off base but they need to know so that's why many give sh1t tests.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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