"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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do girls like when you roll up to bars on your own?

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I rolled up to a bar to meet up with this one girl. So i got there and my homie went to the bathroom, so I went to find her and her friends. I did and she asked if I came alone, I said yeah for the hell of it. And then she's like oh. And then her friend rolls up and asks the same question, I answer the same, and she's like ooh sexy, or something like that. lol. So my question is do girls like when you roll up to bars on your own?

I've never gone to any bars or clubs alone, but today, i'm feeling brave and i'm thinking about goin it alone.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Why should it take bravery? I don't see what the big deal is.

I've often gone to bars and clubs without anyone else, and without plans to meet anyone there.
 
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There's a big difference when you're with atleast 3 others, and then sometimes with 10. I've gotten used to it. If I were to go alone, i would be brave in the fact that since I know no one there, I'd try meeting them all. And ofcourse no one has your back if any bull**** fight were to happen...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You 'rolled' somewhere and got your 'homie'?

Who the f.uck are you, Snoop Doggy Dogg?
 
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Do you, by any chance, "pack heat"?
Got a "gat" on you at all times?

I kid, I kid!
I thought it was a mixed bag, in answer to your question. Some would see it as a bit loner-y, others would prefer.
 
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