"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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do girls like when you roll up to bars on your own?

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I rolled up to a bar to meet up with this one girl. So i got there and my homie went to the bathroom, so I went to find her and her friends. I did and she asked if I came alone, I said yeah for the hell of it. And then she's like oh. And then her friend rolls up and asks the same question, I answer the same, and she's like ooh sexy, or something like that. lol. So my question is do girls like when you roll up to bars on your own?

I've never gone to any bars or clubs alone, but today, i'm feeling brave and i'm thinking about goin it alone.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Why should it take bravery? I don't see what the big deal is.

I've often gone to bars and clubs without anyone else, and without plans to meet anyone there.
 
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There's a big difference when you're with atleast 3 others, and then sometimes with 10. I've gotten used to it. If I were to go alone, i would be brave in the fact that since I know no one there, I'd try meeting them all. And ofcourse no one has your back if any bull**** fight were to happen...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You 'rolled' somewhere and got your 'homie'?

Who the f.uck are you, Snoop Doggy Dogg?
 
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Do you, by any chance, "pack heat"?
Got a "gat" on you at all times?

I kid, I kid!
I thought it was a mixed bag, in answer to your question. Some would see it as a bit loner-y, others would prefer.
 
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