"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do girls hate you for playing too much games?

ICaughtFire

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i noe this girl and i basically tease n neg hit her a lot sure she become attracted 2 my "jerkiness" n then started playing games wif me. she always try 2 make me jealous like hugging other guys right in front of me, and other downright off the edge jealousy acts she was trying very hard..........

last sat we hung out with some of her friends and we tease eachother and neg hit eachother more in the end i couldn't go on the same bus as her and u can see that disappointed look on her face, i thought that hanging out was fine

then the next day she block and delete me from msn and said i was very mean to her and she is now very pissed, and she would never talk to me again on msn

i was like wtf? i cant find any good reason for this, the ony one i can think of is that she's pissed that im still teasing and neg hitting her although she tries so hard etc she wants me to pursue her and say how much i like her blah..........

is this a possibility?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sasha

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She is just trying to turn the table. Relax and let the shyt hit the fan. Cuz in the end she will come back. And belive me, this is a temporary thing. You'll be back on her msn in no time!
 

ICaughtFire

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most of her friends are encouraging her to forget about me, will that affect her decision?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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ICaughtFire

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i worked and waited quite long for this, i don't wanna just give it up like that
 

Lost In the Seas

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Seems like u neg hit her to much and she took them too seriously, she proablly still like u, and is mad temporalily, but u should change ur attitude towards her anyways, dont neg hit her too much now
 
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