"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do girls hate you for playing too much games?

ICaughtFire

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i noe this girl and i basically tease n neg hit her a lot sure she become attracted 2 my "jerkiness" n then started playing games wif me. she always try 2 make me jealous like hugging other guys right in front of me, and other downright off the edge jealousy acts she was trying very hard..........

last sat we hung out with some of her friends and we tease eachother and neg hit eachother more in the end i couldn't go on the same bus as her and u can see that disappointed look on her face, i thought that hanging out was fine

then the next day she block and delete me from msn and said i was very mean to her and she is now very pissed, and she would never talk to me again on msn

i was like wtf? i cant find any good reason for this, the ony one i can think of is that she's pissed that im still teasing and neg hitting her although she tries so hard etc she wants me to pursue her and say how much i like her blah..........

is this a possibility?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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She is just trying to turn the table. Relax and let the shyt hit the fan. Cuz in the end she will come back. And belive me, this is a temporary thing. You'll be back on her msn in no time!
 

ICaughtFire

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most of her friends are encouraging her to forget about me, will that affect her decision?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ICaughtFire

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i worked and waited quite long for this, i don't wanna just give it up like that
 

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Seems like u neg hit her to much and she took them too seriously, she proablly still like u, and is mad temporalily, but u should change ur attitude towards her anyways, dont neg hit her too much now
 
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