Do girls handle breakups/cease contact better than us

[SirFratserlot]

We werent dating, but I was messing around with this girl for like a month in a half. I could tell she really liked me at first, but she started going in to ***** mode and eventually I got drunk ended it with her before before the car started rolling down the hill lol. Basically she told me she really liked me because she thought I was cute, but she wasnt looking for/ready for a relationship. I pretty much called her bull**** and walked away. Its day 6 of no contact and I think about her everyday. She left a lot of her junk in my room and I have two bite mark scars on my neck from her, so I get reminded of her constantly. It seems like I was just spilled milk in her life, and that ive been quickly forgotten. Is this how they usually handle this or are they more emotionally unstable than us.

 

[j0504s]

The simple answer would be Women think with their egos...therefore they "appear" to stay strong...and they use that break up as energy to find their next fix of validation....

 

[Zion]

Generally ? Yes.

Why ?

Amongst a few other things , because your average girl will always have more orbiters , pretenders and "friends" around her than the average male.

Men who sit around and don't really socialize all that well have a horrible time getting over ex's , NC's , and any other form of emotional trauma. Girls that share those traits suffer the same consequences , but what I'm saying is that it's easier to put a short skirt on and make 10 new friends on your way to the grocery store than the other way around. It's easier to eat when you're being fed , rather then to go hunting yourself , correct ?


But as long as you're maintaining perfect NC with her , she'll get the same feeling from you - that she was just a spilled bottle -. How easy she has it is an average between how attached she was to you , how her social life stands and how big her ego is.


It's a complicated matter to be honest. After going NC for 3 months + my ex told me she feels like I don't even remotely care for her anymore. That's how she perceived the NC , while I was pretty much thinking about her at least once very 1-2 days. On the same note ,this was my first 'forced' NC. With any other girl I NC'ed , never thought about it again and was perfectly happy.

 

[SirFratserlot]

The simple answer would be Women think with their egos...therefore they "appear" to stay strong...and they use that break up as energy to find their next fix of validation....

I dont think this girl can get a better looking guy than me lol, and I broke it off with her before she started monkey branching. I was pretty much her branch from her ex. She does keep her exes as orbiters though and they whiteknight too. You're right zion, her orbiters are probably fulfilling their duties for her. She had an orbiter trying to white knight her while I was talking to her about ending things.

 

[zekko]

You're right zion, her orbiters are probably fulfilling their duties for her. She had an orbiter trying to white knight her while I was talking to her about ending things.

A lot easier to forget about the last batter when there's another one stepping right up to the plate.

 

[LongLostFriend]

If you do the rejecting, many chicks will take it harder than some dudes.

 

[SirFratserlot]

A lot easier to forget about the last batter when there's another one stepping right up to the plate.

Shes not that pretty. Plus she was still showing signs of interest and shiz, but she wasnt obsessing over me like she used to.