"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Do girls find people wearing glasses unattractive?

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I wear glasses, and people for some reason always tell me to not wear them as this would make me look better, but my vision just isn't as good without them. They always suggest me to get contact lenses but im just confused. Are people wearing glasses inferior in looks to people not wearing them?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Glasses are like hats, the right style enhances your appearance, the wrong style makes you look daft.

And cheap ones always look bad.

Some people I've seen change from glasses to contacts just look ill without them. You really notice their pasty white skin and minor blemishes stand out much more.
 

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Originally posted by assasin
Glasses are like hats, the right style enhances your appearance, the wrong style makes you look daft.

And cheap ones always look bad.

Some people I've seen change from glasses to contacts just look ill without them. You really notice their pasty white skin and minor blemishes stand out much more.
it's just that you are used to seeing them with glasses on. actually, it's almost impossible that somebody looks better with glasses than without, unless he's quite ugly and plain and has to go with the geek's look, in order to appear a bit more interesting.

i was about to start a similar thread, since yesterday i had some problems with my eyes and i couldn't wear contact lenses (by the way, my eyes got all red [reeeeally red] and burned as i tried to put contacts on them... today i manage to wear them, but they still feel a bit uncomfortable... what is that?!?!). well, while usually i notice random girls staring at me while i'm outside, yesterday (i had my glasses on), i didn't notice any. my female classmates told me that i'm pretty nice with glasses on and maybe i should wear them more often, but, again, there was no unknown girl that stared at me.

i'm not saying it's all about looks, it's also confidence: after getting home, i understood that i felt pretty ugly with glasses, so my confidence had gone deep down: i walked a bit curved and even my hair looked messy (not a cool mess, but a nerdy mess). throw aways those fùckin glasses, guys!
 

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There's nothing wrong with wearing glasses. I'm a long time wearer. i wear those plastic black ones that are fashionable, you see quite a lot of people wearing those now.

But actually this is how it works....if people see you wear glasses 24/7, then one day you switch to contacts you'lll look 2x better w/o it.

if people never seen you wear glasses, one day you show up wearing em, they'll say you look better and more sophisticated.

but eh...some people look better with or w/o glasses.

IMHO, people naturally looks best w/o glasses.

so yea it's like a hat basically, it accompanies your hair & clothing style. Whether or not you appear a nerd is up to how you present yourself.
 

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For some reason, I have a fetish for girls wearing glasses. Of course they have to be the right kind of glasses for her face. Something about a good looking girl in glasses just turns me on!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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glasses are for nerds.
 

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i use to wear glasses, then i got contact lens and ppl said I looked great without glasses :D

but then again, I got tired of putting that stuff on everyday and taking it off

so i got my lasek done, now I am glasses/lens free :eek: :)
 

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I see glasses as *** googles!!:crackup:
 

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It depends on what the persons face looks like. And the style of glasses they wear. People have told me that I look older with my glasses on so i'm not ashamed to wear them.
 

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Hollywood says nerds/dorks wear glasses. Hollywood says cool people don't. Go with Hollywood if it's an image thing.

Girls are exempted from this unless they wear huge plastic eyeglasses.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I dont wear glasses. But everytime I am messing around and put on a pair of one of my friends glasses chicks always comment and say I look really good with glasses. Too bad I have perfect vision :eek:
 
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