"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Do girls fake their love for beta providers?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Skyline
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Well women are into it if they like you. Women didn't mind Charles Manson killing people because they were into him. I think game is a relative thing and the only thing that really matter is your frame(or how centered you are with yourself). I believe this is how guys with no game can get girls or they're together for the relationship "benefits"(leach).
I don't believe women are there to extract resources from their partner but I do believe that people like that exist. Male and female.
I think the reason why women enjoy romance movies is because of the ups and downs, not so much the romantic gestures. Everyone is vulnerable to an abusive relationship because of that. It's just the highs and lows that are addicting.
I flirt and do romantic things(if I'm passionate about them) because I want to. Seeing their reaction is what I want. I like making them feel a certain way because I made them feel that way. If I don't agree with something she does, I make sure that she feels the way that I reflect my annoyance.
Game just makes things fun but it can easily be faked. If a girl falls for it then that means she liked you in the first place.
mrgoodstuff
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And cucked against your will?
You seem to be going against the grain here lol. A few people in this thred stated that girls will settle with the "beta provider guy" just to have a sense of "stability" or "self-worth" or for their kids sake, but you claim that you eventually got chucked by them?
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Give me your opinion on Ciara and Russell Wilson.
Is she really in love with this guy, or is it all an act?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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You don't know about the singer Ciara and NFL Seahawks Russell Wilson lol?
I tell you guys what though, deep down......I still just have a distrust and disdain for women. It's so bad now that I just can't even date or be around a bytch right now. I don't even want to fvck them.
I don't know, it's just learning more and more about their nature....as well as the fact that society is hiding this shyt and won't let anybody discuss it.....just makes me want to Elliot Rodgers a bytch.
wifehunter
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Hint:
Their actions betray them and, they're hypocrites to the core.
mrgoodstuff
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No I think she realize he does her better and appreciate it. But I didn't like her making him wait and men who wouldn't be even close to as good to her got to hit easily.
wifehunter
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Firstly, Charles Manson chose his victims carefully. He made sure they were broken people with messed up father figures and he a kind of acted as such. That's how the women liked him. Plus, he himself rarely actually did killing, he just convinced others to do it for him.
Second, I believe 'game' is more so just the attractive masculine traits of someone's personality. That's why I always put it in quotes actually. And yes it can be faked, but eventually the facade fades and she finds out who the person really is, IF it was faked. I agree with you about them liking the ups and downs of romance though.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
From what I've experienced, women are simultaneously running two different algorithms for Lovers vs. Providers--split personalities, almost--and
I don't think these two sides are at all integrated or even aware of each other (for most women--I've met a couple that were far more introspective and self-aware of their divergent motivations).
But as far as hard alpha--or at least men who are so higher value that girls know his only contribution is possibly genetic--the kind of man who she'll have wild, uninhibited, legitimately no-strings-attached sport sex with. Yeah, women will blow up their relationships for a night with such a man; but she will feel the loss of the relationship with the slightly more beta man (at least more beta in the sense that he wasn't too high value to commit to her or offer potential commitment) much more harshly than she would if the more alpha, sex-only guy dipped out.
I think post nails it. All of the above.
Also yes to falling in love with Mr Beta. But then get bored and stray to other men with legs wide open. Most females like a good bad boy too
This gets interesting if she as a child but has a slutty past. Can she REALLY stay settled down with physically unattractive Mr.Reliable solely for her kids sake and for her desire for stability?
