Do girls fake their love for beta providers?

[bigneil]

A better question might be "Do girls fake their love for underemployed frat boys who give them HPV"?

If you're not both rich and attractive, she is secretly wanting more.

 

[Skyline]

Of course everyone 'wishes' for cliche romances to come true, but the fact is that isn't what women are really into. It's okay to be wishy washy to a girl who deserves it, but you can't do it all the time. Just like you shouldn't never do it either, but the thing is men think being this way all the time is the way to attract them when it's clearly not the case.

Well women are into it if they like you. Women didn't mind Charles Manson killing people because they were into him. I think game is a relative thing and the only thing that really matter is your frame(or how centered you are with yourself). I believe this is how guys with no game can get girls or they're together for the relationship "benefits"(leach).

I don't believe women are there to extract resources from their partner but I do believe that people like that exist. Male and female.

I think the reason why women enjoy romance movies is because of the ups and downs, not so much the romantic gestures. Everyone is vulnerable to an abusive relationship because of that. It's just the highs and lows that are addicting.

I flirt and do romantic things(if I'm passionate about them) because I want to. Seeing their reaction is what I want. I like making them feel a certain way because I made them feel that way. If I don't agree with something she does, I make sure that she feels the way that I reflect my annoyance.

Game just makes things fun but it can easily be faked. If a girl falls for it then that means she liked you in the first place.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

yes I am the dreaded "boyfriend material" guy to be paraded around town

And cucked against your will?

 

[XavierG]

*100%* of my girlfriends tried to cuck me, boundaries or not

You seem to be going against the grain here lol. A few people in this thred stated that girls will settle with the "beta provider guy" just to have a sense of "stability" or "self-worth" or for their kids sake, but you claim that you eventually got chucked by them?

 

[Tenacity]

Women want relationships. And a lot of what happens to be attractive about men happens when we don't want relationships.

So, yes. Sometimes women find a beta guy that is tolerable enough to settle with.

Then, they often "fake their love" even to themselves.

Why? Because needs must.

Give me your opinion on Ciara and Russell Wilson.

Is she really in love with this guy, or is it all an act?

 

[Tenacity]

I have not a fvcking clue who those people are.

I will tell you this much: I've actually seen women in my own life try to moderate the beta-ness of a beta provider in order to keep him from repulsing her.

Even known women to stop one of those guys from telling her that he was in love.

You don't know about the singer Ciara and NFL Seahawks Russell Wilson lol?

I tell you guys what though, deep down......I still just have a distrust and disdain for women. It's so bad now that I just can't even date or be around a bytch right now. I don't even want to fvck them.

I don't know, it's just learning more and more about their nature....as well as the fact that society is hiding this shyt and won't let anybody discuss it.....just makes me want to Elliot Rodgers a bytch.

 

[wifehunter]

Yes, especially if they're fake to begin with. My mother, is prime example and the benchmark, for this heinousness.

Hint:

Their actions betray them and, they're hypocrites to the core.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Give me your opinion on Ciara and Russell Wilson.

Is she really in love with this guy, or is it all an act?

No I think she realize he does her better and appreciate it. But I didn't like her making him wait and men who wouldn't be even close to as good to her got to hit easily.

 

[wifehunter]

Women are incapable of loving a man for who he really is. They only love a man for the resources he provides for her. It could be money, status, power, etc.

Exception:

Only if she worships Satan, aka herself.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Well women are into it if they like you. Women didn't mind Charles Manson killing people because they were into him. I think game is a relative thing and the only thing that really matter is your frame(or how centered you are with yourself). I believe this is how guys with no game can get girls or they're together for the relationship "benefits"(leach).

I don't believe women are there to extract resources from their partner but I do believe that people like that exist. Male and female.

I think the reason why women enjoy romance movies is because of the ups and downs, not so much the romantic gestures. Everyone is vulnerable to an abusive relationship because of that. It's just the highs and lows that are addicting.

I flirt and do romantic things(if I'm passionate about them) because I want to. Seeing their reaction is what I want. I like making them feel a certain way because I made them feel that way. If I don't agree with something she does, I make sure that she feels the way that I reflect my annoyance.

Game just makes things fun but it can easily be faked. If a girl falls for it then that means she liked you in the first place.

Firstly, Charles Manson chose his victims carefully. He made sure they were broken people with messed up father figures and he a kind of acted as such. That's how the women liked him. Plus, he himself rarely actually did killing, he just convinced others to do it for him.
Second, I believe 'game' is more so just the attractive masculine traits of someone's personality. That's why I always put it in quotes actually. And yes it can be faked, but eventually the facade fades and she finds out who the person really is, IF it was faked. I agree with you about them liking the ups and downs of romance though.

 

[fastlife]

I do think women genuinely do love their beta providers in most cases (excluding, of course, the most mercenary of women)--especially at the beginning of the relationship & don't have the self-awareness to realize what will follow. Remember women have a dualistic mating strategy and are chemically compelled to feel good when they are acting in either of those interests (Dopamine & Epinephrine & Oxytocin).

From what I've experienced, women are simultaneously running two different algorithms for Lovers vs. Providers--split personalities, almost--and
I don't think these two sides are at all integrated or even aware of each other (for most women--I've met a couple that were far more introspective and self-aware of their divergent motivations).

But as far as hard alpha--or at least men who are so higher value that girls know his only contribution is possibly genetic--the kind of man who she'll have wild, uninhibited, legitimately no-strings-attached sport sex with. Yeah, women will blow up their relationships for a night with such a man; but she will feel the loss of the relationship with the slightly more beta man (at least more beta in the sense that he wasn't too high value to commit to her or offer potential commitment) much more harshly than she would if the more alpha, sex-only guy dipped out.

 

[ubercat]

It's pretty simple to me. If you're being a stand-up guy and your woman doesn't appreciate... Walk. If you're letting your game slide expect to b the b1tch. If you're in the middle figure out how to avoid or interrupt the triggers for your pvssy behaviours

 

[GT40]

Women are incapable of loving a man for who he really is. They only love a man for the resources he provides for her. It could be money, status, power, etc.

I think post nails it. All of the above.
Also yes to falling in love with Mr Beta. But then get bored and stray to other men with legs wide open. Most females like a good bad boy too

 

[XavierG]

I think post nails it. All of the above.
Also yes to falling in love with Mr Beta. But then get bored and stray to other men with legs wide open. Most females like a good bad boy too

This gets interesting if she as a child but has a slutty past. Can she REALLY stay settled down with physically unattractive Mr.Reliable solely for her kids sake and for her desire for stability?