"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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do girls assume you get other women based on your looks?

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not to sound bigheaded but people tell me im good looking
lets say i approach a girl in a bar...do they assume that because you are good looking and because you approached them...and you come across as fairly smooth, that you are some sort of player?
i get numbers, and i get the feeling that it went well, and then they flake?!?!
so i assume that they think i must approach tonnes of women like i did her and that im just tryna get some.

or is my thinking wrong?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You're thinking wrong. If they thought you got many women and you were that smooth, they wouldn't flake on you.

Women don't turn down 'players' unless they come off as scumbags. In fact, women are attracted to men who get a lot of attention from other ladies.
 
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not true.

i know alot of girls that tell me when i guy talks to them in public places or trys to get their number they are turned off because they know he does it towards everyone
 
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Yes, a woman can assume that you get other women by your looks and charm, but that's not why their flaking. In fact, it only raises your value in their eyes.

As to the real reason for the flakes? There's no way for us to know, unless you'd like to dole out a little more info.
 
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Yes, looks can portray a man as someone who is "seeked" out but whats the point when as soon as he opens his mouth the girl knows instantly that this dudes a virgin.

Lastly f you were to approach 10 girls, lets say 7 of them gave you their number, only 1-2 of them well actually meet you up. Is that a bad thing? No not really, its part of the game.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Some girls dig the chase

others are turned on by it

depends on the chick.
as for me, my chick likes it when other girls think i'm cute, but she hates it when they start pushin up on me
 
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Daniel1099 said:
not true.

i know alot of girls that tell me when i guy talks to them in public places or trys to get their number they are turned off because they know he does it towards everyone
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Hence, a girl tells you this. Girls give the worst advice on pickups.

Go to any establishment. The men talking to women confidently and who aren't afraid to ask for information are the ones getting laid.
 
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