"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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do girls assume you get other women based on your looks?

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not to sound bigheaded but people tell me im good looking
lets say i approach a girl in a bar...do they assume that because you are good looking and because you approached them...and you come across as fairly smooth, that you are some sort of player?
i get numbers, and i get the feeling that it went well, and then they flake?!?!
so i assume that they think i must approach tonnes of women like i did her and that im just tryna get some.

or is my thinking wrong?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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You're thinking wrong. If they thought you got many women and you were that smooth, they wouldn't flake on you.

Women don't turn down 'players' unless they come off as scumbags. In fact, women are attracted to men who get a lot of attention from other ladies.
 
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not true.

i know alot of girls that tell me when i guy talks to them in public places or trys to get their number they are turned off because they know he does it towards everyone
 
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Yes, a woman can assume that you get other women by your looks and charm, but that's not why their flaking. In fact, it only raises your value in their eyes.

As to the real reason for the flakes? There's no way for us to know, unless you'd like to dole out a little more info.
 
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Yes, looks can portray a man as someone who is "seeked" out but whats the point when as soon as he opens his mouth the girl knows instantly that this dudes a virgin.

Lastly f you were to approach 10 girls, lets say 7 of them gave you their number, only 1-2 of them well actually meet you up. Is that a bad thing? No not really, its part of the game.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Some girls dig the chase

others are turned on by it

depends on the chick.
as for me, my chick likes it when other girls think i'm cute, but she hates it when they start pushin up on me
 
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Daniel1099 said:
not true.

i know alot of girls that tell me when i guy talks to them in public places or trys to get their number they are turned off because they know he does it towards everyone
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Hence, a girl tells you this. Girls give the worst advice on pickups.

Go to any establishment. The men talking to women confidently and who aren't afraid to ask for information are the ones getting laid.
 
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