"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Do any of you guys experience this though? Do women regularly act higher on a pedestal if you ask them out, or is this particular specimen just a *****?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dekg140 said:
Do any of you guys experience this though? Do women regularly act higher on a pedestal if you ask them out, or is this particular specimen just a *****?
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When a guy 'asks' a gilr out, he is immediately elevating her above him, so yes they take the high ground, she is suddenly more valuabe and she will revel in it to a greater or lesser degree, paradoxically, unless she is really into him, the guy is devalued.
 
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