"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do any of you guys experience this though? Do women regularly act higher on a pedestal if you ask them out, or is this particular specimen just a *****?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dekg140 said:
Do any of you guys experience this though? Do women regularly act higher on a pedestal if you ask them out, or is this particular specimen just a *****?
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When a guy 'asks' a gilr out, he is immediately elevating her above him, so yes they take the high ground, she is suddenly more valuabe and she will revel in it to a greater or lesser degree, paradoxically, unless she is really into him, the guy is devalued.
 
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