Do gifts work for getting laid or did I get lucky?

[captain55]

A year ago I had the balls to get a girl a $500 gift card before I ever even ****ed her. A year later she calls me everyday and is in love with me, we have amazing sex. She wants a relationship with me.

I have another chick I am interested in. Her birthday is this weekend and she invited me to a club with her. I’m thinking about doing the same thing. I know she doesn’t make a lot of money so I wouldn’t mind spending some cash on her.

Should I get her a $500 gift card? I’ve gone out with her like once. Most guys would say don’t do it until she earned it and puts out but last time I did this it got the 9 I wanted to finally put out.

Maybe because I live in La, chicks seem to love money. Gets them to drop their pants quick.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Captain55. Youve known for years on this website not to do this. Women who are into you will gift you. And theyll sex you early on. Many men weren't gifting to get sex. They were gifting to show how special he THOUGHT she was. But she never earned it. So it was a naive guy. Dont worry bout gifts for someone your not serious with. An oddball occasional gift for female contacts is ok. But not one you desire. She must desire you. And she must choose you.

For a real female friend who does things for you its ok to occasionally exchange gifts and niceties.

For a "hot girl" you havent fvcked its a surefire way to ensure you wont fvck.

 

[backseatjuan]

You are a dream for some gold diggers I’m chatting now on OLD in blogs section, they staight up say I’m automatically not interested in men unless he gives gifts.

I quoted too short and suggested she fcks his car. She was totally fine with rubbing her **** on his tire.

 

[captain55]

Captain55. Youve known for years on this website not to do this. Women who are into you will gift you. And theyll sex you early on. Many men weren't gifting to get sex. They were gifting to show how special he THOUGHT she was. But she never earned it. So it was a naive guy. Dont worry bout gifts for someone your not serious with. An oddball occasional gift for female contacts is ok. But not one you desire. She must desire you. And she must choose you.

For a real female friend who does things for you its ok to occasionally exchange gifts and niceties.

For a "hot girl" you havent fvcked its a surefire way to ensure you wont fvck.

Normally I would agree with you. On paper I would agree with you. Maybe i got lucky. But for me the one time I was dumb enough to buy a girl a gift before I ****ed her it worked.

If a girl has 10-15 guys she’s attracted to trying to bang her, and she’s materialistic, she’s probably going to bang the guy that has money who she’s attracted to as well.

I mean I can show up to her party empty handed, but she’s getting me free bottle service. She knows I drive a 70k Mercedes and I wear a 7k Rolex, how can I show up with no gift without looking like a cheap ****? She’s 25 and doesn’t make much money

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Normally I would agree with you. On paper I would agree with you. Maybe i got lucky. But for me the one time I was dumb enough to buy a girl a gift before I ****ed her it worked.

If a girl has 10-15 guys she’s attracted to trying to bang her, and she’s materialistic, she’s probably going to bang the guy that has money who she’s attracted to as well.

I mean I can show up to her party empty handed, but she’s getting me free bottle service. She knows I drive a 70k Mercedes and I wear a 7k Rolex, how can I show up with no gift without looking like a cheap ****? She’s 25 and doesn’t make much money

I dont like that situation. Make sure she prefers it to be you.

 

[Billtx49]

I mean I can show up to her party empty handed, but she’s getting me free bottle service. She knows I drive a 70k Mercedes and I wear a 7k Rolex, how can I show up with no gift without looking like a cheap ****? She’s 25 and doesn’t make much money

If you do it, limit the gift card to $100-200, not a 5 er.…

 

[backseatjuan]

I did buy gift to a girl, concert. I fcked her before concert. The most lousy fck ever. It was more of a thank you fck, and the only fck ever. She was 17. After more gifts she sang me this and left.

I don’t watch this video often, when I do I cry. Since then I do not believe in gifts.

 

[17 shots]

To answer your question directly... you got luckier then a four leaf clover

Most women are very unappreciative in LA. Can you have sex with them and manipulate them from those gifts and money? Yes, most of them will sell their soul for money, but to turn it into a real solid relationship is lucky

Usually they'll just keep you on the side and have sex with you for the gifts and money while some other guy who's broke as hell or in jail is their real boyfriend that they "love" lol

 

[marmel75]

This is beta af

 

[Billtx49]

This is beta af

Yes, OP’s concept if I understand it correctly is. She invited him to her Bday event and it’s socially polite, acceptable, and gentlemanly to bring a thoughtful gift, Not in the hope of getting some fast sex…

 

[marmel75]

Yes, OP’s concept if I understand it correctly is. She invited him to her Bday event and it’s socially polite, acceptable, and gentlemanly to bring a thoughtful gift, Not in the hope of getting some fast sex…

Right...who the fvck in their right mind gives a chick they NEVER MET a $500 gift card?? Straight loser move OP

 

[17 shots]

OP use that 500 on a woman you want to start pimping. Get her a hotel room for the week. At least that way it's a business minded investment that we can all respect

 

[RickTheToad]

A year ago I had the balls to get a girl a $500 gift card before I ever even ****ed her. A year later she calls me everyday and is in love with me, we have amazing sex. She wants a relationship with me.

I have another chick I am interested in. Her birthday is this weekend and she invited me to a club with her. I’m thinking about doing the same thing. I know she doesn’t make a lot of money so I wouldn’t mind spending some cash on her.

Should I get her a $500 gift card? I’ve gone out with her like once. Most guys would say don’t do it until she earned it and puts out but last time I did this it got the 9 I wanted to finally put out.

Maybe because I live in La, chicks seem to love money. Gets them to drop their pants quick.

Are you serious?

 

[Alvafe]

you know a hooker is cheaper.

here is teh deal with presents, the value of it is based on what the person have to the receiver, you can give someone a car, if said person don't like you they will tolerate you, so they can get more, but if the person like you even a paper ring will be given a huge value

 

[Billtx49]

Right...who the fvck in their right mind gives a chick they NEVER MET a $500 gift card?? Straight loser move OP

Yep, a much smaller amount would be acceptable, but the 500 will probably get her thinking he’s floating in $$$ and spends it fast and free. Not a good idea for her to have if anything develops with them…

 

[GrowingPains]

OP, if I were you I'd consider finding some more self respect.

Her putting out is worth $500 to you? Isn't sleeping with you something of a gift to her as well? Why should you cough up such crazy amounts of money with the sole purpose of smashing? You're not worthy enough for her to want to have sex without you paying for it?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yes, OP’s concept if I understand it correctly is. She invited him to her Bday event and it’s socially polite, acceptable, and gentlemanly to bring a thoughtful gift, Not in the hope of getting some fast sex…

A thoughtful gift when your not with her would top off at $50. And she would gift you as well.

 

[ubercat]

So obviously not being a DJ comes at a price too... no?

There is a principal at play. Being different often gets you the f***. Woman want variety men want routine.

But being crazy to be different ain't great

 

[Trump]

Should I get her a $500 gift card? I’ve gone out with her like once. Most guys would say don’t do it until she earned it and puts out but last time I did this it got the 9 I wanted to finally put out.

Maybe because I live in La, chicks seem to love money. Gets them to drop their pants quick.

I would. Fastest way to the promised land.

The top players in here don’t need to. They just “exist” and the hot young girls feel privileged to get the sex from them.

Rock on!

 

[Mike32ct]

The price will keep going up.