“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do friends ruin your chances?

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I was at work earlier today and I was thinking about taking a certain girl out somewhere this weekend. So I figured we go out and eat or whatever comes to my mind at the time.

But the thing I'm wondering about is this: Everyweekend where I live there is always some kind of party going on. I mean sure, we could go eat and a movie or something of that nature but I think it would also be fun to go show her off a little around my friends. The only thing is my friends are a little bit immature compared to me (not bragging) and I can never tell what they might say in front of this new girl.

Which I'm not saying I'm insecure or anything (Idon't think) I just don't want somebody saying something that would embarrass me. Something that would otherwise make me laugh you see, but I'm with this new girl and I don't want them to say something stupid.

I do know how to act around women when I'm with my friends, but not right off the bat when I first meet them. Maybe I should just keep it me and her for the first date?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I guess I will just keep it me and her for the first date because I have been in situation where someone has ****blocked me and tried to put me down so that he could steal my girl..the bastard.....

After a while and once I get to know the girl better I suppose then I might could chance a little while around my friends
 
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I never introduce dates/f-buddies to friends. Only if you're in a LTR do you risk it.

When I get bored with a girl or if I feel I have enough to keep me occupied, then I'll let them have a piece.
 
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I agree with the others, introducing to friends is more of a LTR deal.

Especially if the relationship isnt quite defined with a girl yet, having other people around will only serve as a ****block which isnt needed. Besides no one can really predict when kind of stupid **** or put downs your friend will land on you when you do introduce your chick to em.

My friends are cool and all, and they seem interested in meeting my girl. But what they dont realize is their presence alone can be a ****block. Im almost certain they'll end up saying **** or quickly revealing stuff about me to her that i have yet to tell her.

When it comes down to men, women can easily become competitive amongst their friends. And guy friends are fully capable of that also around a woman
 
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