Do friends ruin your chances?

[B-Real]

I was at work earlier today and I was thinking about taking a certain girl out somewhere this weekend. So I figured we go out and eat or whatever comes to my mind at the time.

But the thing I'm wondering about is this: Everyweekend where I live there is always some kind of party going on. I mean sure, we could go eat and a movie or something of that nature but I think it would also be fun to go show her off a little around my friends. The only thing is my friends are a little bit immature compared to me (not bragging) and I can never tell what they might say in front of this new girl.

Which I'm not saying I'm insecure or anything (Idon't think) I just don't want somebody saying something that would embarrass me. Something that would otherwise make me laugh you see, but I'm with this new girl and I don't want them to say something stupid.

I do know how to act around women when I'm with my friends, but not right off the bat when I first meet them. Maybe I should just keep it me and her for the first date?

 

[B-Real]

I guess I will just keep it me and her for the first date because I have been in situation where someone has ****blocked me and tried to put me down so that he could steal my girl..the bastard.....

After a while and once I get to know the girl better I suppose then I might could chance a little while around my friends

 

[AmIAFC]

I never introduce dates/f-buddies to friends. Only if you're in a LTR do you risk it.

When I get bored with a girl or if I feel I have enough to keep me occupied, then I'll let them have a piece.

 

[ScrewIt]

I agree with the others, introducing to friends is more of a LTR deal.

Especially if the relationship isnt quite defined with a girl yet, having other people around will only serve as a ****block which isnt needed. Besides no one can really predict when kind of stupid **** or put downs your friend will land on you when you do introduce your chick to em.

My friends are cool and all, and they seem interested in meeting my girl. But what they dont realize is their presence alone can be a ****block. Im almost certain they'll end up saying **** or quickly revealing stuff about me to her that i have yet to tell her.

When it comes down to men, women can easily become competitive amongst their friends. And guy friends are fully capable of that also around a woman