"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Do fat women seek out geeky men?

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I was looking at this lovely butterball, and it got me thinking ...

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/crittychristy/photos

Perhaps fat women, realizing they have very low sexual market, figure that they can snag a horny geek that of course is seen to be worthless by attractive women.

Are there any folks here that go to the comic book conventions, or something like? (In my day, the big uncool thing to do was to be into Star Trek.) Do you find a lot of aggressive fat women there?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I go with my girlfriends, they get to be the convention's 10's... even though they are only 7's at home (China/Mexico). Usually warpigs will stay their distance if they see an alpha with a hot girl. Warpigs tend to attack alphas or anything masculine if they know you are single or by yourself. Warpigs also walk in single file to hide their numbers.

There are tons of warpigs at D&D cons, comic cons and Trek/Sci-Fi Cons and yup they are always with nerdy guys pretending as if they enjoy nerdy stuff. My GF enjoys Japanese anime but not the kind written for men. She likes romantic stories and boring women's emotional crap...she watched one depressing anime just so she could feel 'sad'...so for all these warpigs who pretend to be in to Hack and Slash and Counterstrike, you know they are just full of sh1t.

I hate talking/playing with these types of women because they are usually, highly opinionated and think they somehow know something about war or competition or whatever it is we are talking about...(female gamers come to mind). My girlfriend can play a dance game and a game about putting bubbles together in little lines, ask her to Zerg Rush and her little Chinese brain will explode. Ask a warpig what she enjoys about CS and she'll tell you she loves guns or action...ask her what gun is the best gun in science fiction and she'll go on a rant about male aggression in science fiction, b1tch the answer is the m41-a Pulse Rifle!

Usually if a warpig feels threatened they will come back at you with some bvll**** line like: I can kick your ass! I would love a warpig to put this to the test.... I wish warpigs would stay the fvck out of male hobbies... I don't want to talk, droids, game of thrones, terminators, ship battles or han solo vs kirk with a woman...she really has no fvcking clue WHY stuff is awesome.

A thing of beauty: http://www.clayjohanson.com/html/M41-A.htm
 
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LiveFreeX said:
I go with my girlfriends, they get to be the convention's 10's... even though they are only 7's at home (China/Mexico). Usually warpigs will stay their distance if they see an alpha with a hot girl. Warpigs tend to attack alphas or anything masculine if they know you are single or by yourself. Warpigs also walk in single file to hide their numbers.

There are tons of warpigs at D&D cons, comic cons and Trek/Sci-Fi Cons and yup they are always with nerdy guys pretending as if they enjoy nerdy stuff. My GF enjoys Japanese anime but not the kind written for men. She likes romantic stories and boring women's emotional crap...she watched one depressing anime just so she could feel 'sad'...so for all these warpigs who pretend to be in to Hack and Slash and Counterstrike, you know they are just full of sh1t.

I hate talking/playing with these types of women because they are usually, highly opinionated and think they somehow know something about war or competition or whatever it is we are talking about...(female gamers come to mind). My girlfriend can play a dance game and a game about putting bubbles together in little lines, ask her to Zerg Rush and her little Chinese brain will explode. Ask a warpig what she enjoys about CS and she'll tell you she loves guns or action...ask her what gun is the best gun in science fiction and she'll go on a rant about male aggression in science fiction, b1tch the answer is the m41-a Pulse Rifle!

Usually if a warpig feels threatened they will come back at you with some bvll**** line like: I can kick your ass! I would love a warpig to put this to the test.... I wish warpigs would stay the fvck out of male hobbies... I don't want to talk, droids, game of thrones, terminators, ship battles or han solo vs kirk with a woman...she really has no fvcking clue WHY stuff is awesome.

A thing of beauty: http://www.clayjohanson.com/html/M41-A.htm
:crackup: Well said my man.
 

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After women are pumped and dumped by a few guys who are out of their league, they wise up. Having said that, 80% of guys are out of her league so she's aiming low.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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