Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Do fat women seek out geeky men?

MatureDJ

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I was looking at this lovely butterball, and it got me thinking ...

http://www.okcupid.com/profile/crittychristy/photos

Perhaps fat women, realizing they have very low sexual market, figure that they can snag a horny geek that of course is seen to be worthless by attractive women.

Are there any folks here that go to the comic book conventions, or something like? (In my day, the big uncool thing to do was to be into Star Trek.) Do you find a lot of aggressive fat women there?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I go with my girlfriends, they get to be the convention's 10's... even though they are only 7's at home (China/Mexico). Usually warpigs will stay their distance if they see an alpha with a hot girl. Warpigs tend to attack alphas or anything masculine if they know you are single or by yourself. Warpigs also walk in single file to hide their numbers.

There are tons of warpigs at D&D cons, comic cons and Trek/Sci-Fi Cons and yup they are always with nerdy guys pretending as if they enjoy nerdy stuff. My GF enjoys Japanese anime but not the kind written for men. She likes romantic stories and boring women's emotional crap...she watched one depressing anime just so she could feel 'sad'...so for all these warpigs who pretend to be in to Hack and Slash and Counterstrike, you know they are just full of sh1t.

I hate talking/playing with these types of women because they are usually, highly opinionated and think they somehow know something about war or competition or whatever it is we are talking about...(female gamers come to mind). My girlfriend can play a dance game and a game about putting bubbles together in little lines, ask her to Zerg Rush and her little Chinese brain will explode. Ask a warpig what she enjoys about CS and she'll tell you she loves guns or action...ask her what gun is the best gun in science fiction and she'll go on a rant about male aggression in science fiction, b1tch the answer is the m41-a Pulse Rifle!

Usually if a warpig feels threatened they will come back at you with some bvll**** line like: I can kick your ass! I would love a warpig to put this to the test.... I wish warpigs would stay the fvck out of male hobbies... I don't want to talk, droids, game of thrones, terminators, ship battles or han solo vs kirk with a woman...she really has no fvcking clue WHY stuff is awesome.

A thing of beauty: http://www.clayjohanson.com/html/M41-A.htm
 
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LiveFreeX said:
I go with my girlfriends, they get to be the convention's 10's... even though they are only 7's at home (China/Mexico). Usually warpigs will stay their distance if they see an alpha with a hot girl. Warpigs tend to attack alphas or anything masculine if they know you are single or by yourself. Warpigs also walk in single file to hide their numbers.

There are tons of warpigs at D&D cons, comic cons and Trek/Sci-Fi Cons and yup they are always with nerdy guys pretending as if they enjoy nerdy stuff. My GF enjoys Japanese anime but not the kind written for men. She likes romantic stories and boring women's emotional crap...she watched one depressing anime just so she could feel 'sad'...so for all these warpigs who pretend to be in to Hack and Slash and Counterstrike, you know they are just full of sh1t.

I hate talking/playing with these types of women because they are usually, highly opinionated and think they somehow know something about war or competition or whatever it is we are talking about...(female gamers come to mind). My girlfriend can play a dance game and a game about putting bubbles together in little lines, ask her to Zerg Rush and her little Chinese brain will explode. Ask a warpig what she enjoys about CS and she'll tell you she loves guns or action...ask her what gun is the best gun in science fiction and she'll go on a rant about male aggression in science fiction, b1tch the answer is the m41-a Pulse Rifle!

Usually if a warpig feels threatened they will come back at you with some bvll**** line like: I can kick your ass! I would love a warpig to put this to the test.... I wish warpigs would stay the fvck out of male hobbies... I don't want to talk, droids, game of thrones, terminators, ship battles or han solo vs kirk with a woman...she really has no fvcking clue WHY stuff is awesome.

A thing of beauty: http://www.clayjohanson.com/html/M41-A.htm
:crackup: Well said my man.
 

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After women are pumped and dumped by a few guys who are out of their league, they wise up. Having said that, 80% of guys are out of her league so she's aiming low.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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