"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Do Drunk Girls Speak The Truth?

soulforge

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I have had a couple of girls in the past tell me, that they are terrible at relationships, while in a drunken state..

Are these hoes at there most honest when they are drunk?

By the way.. When a woman tells you, she is bad with relationships.. Its probably best to believe that hoe!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Robert28

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She doesn’t even have to tell you that. If she claims that ALL of her ex’s were “tools”(or some other name) you can bet your ass she’s full of issues.
 

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Id say the fact that she likes alcohol and i assume clubbing is itself a minus point for a relationship, but i dont drink at all myself so i guess its not quite like that for all of yall. As alcohol lowers inhibitions, she just confirmed what id already suspect from the fact she drinks. And yes theyll be more honest and straightforward in words and behavior when drunk.
 

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I'm bad at relationships is different from all my ex's were aholes. First one says she don't get often to relationship position, and ends up riding the cck. Second one says she's bad relationship material. Either way she's bad relationship material, just second one ends up in bad relationships all the time, first one prefers one night stands to relationships.

What do you expect from online dating and first date at a bar?

Why not try some intellectual place for first date, maybe a coffee shop near big ben. A lot has to do with that first frame you establish with women. Meet at a bar, fck, is one thing. But then that same woman will meet at a coffee shop and don't fck a guy for 3 dates. You get to see them for truly who they are, instead of being led into some obscure lala land of made up things.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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