"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Do Drunk Girls Speak The Truth?

soulforge

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I have had a couple of girls in the past tell me, that they are terrible at relationships, while in a drunken state..

Are these hoes at there most honest when they are drunk?

By the way.. When a woman tells you, she is bad with relationships.. Its probably best to believe that hoe!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Robert28

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She doesn’t even have to tell you that. If she claims that ALL of her ex’s were “tools”(or some other name) you can bet your ass she’s full of issues.
 

AttackFormation

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Id say the fact that she likes alcohol and i assume clubbing is itself a minus point for a relationship, but i dont drink at all myself so i guess its not quite like that for all of yall. As alcohol lowers inhibitions, she just confirmed what id already suspect from the fact she drinks. And yes theyll be more honest and straightforward in words and behavior when drunk.
 

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I'm bad at relationships is different from all my ex's were aholes. First one says she don't get often to relationship position, and ends up riding the cck. Second one says she's bad relationship material. Either way she's bad relationship material, just second one ends up in bad relationships all the time, first one prefers one night stands to relationships.

What do you expect from online dating and first date at a bar?

Why not try some intellectual place for first date, maybe a coffee shop near big ben. A lot has to do with that first frame you establish with women. Meet at a bar, fck, is one thing. But then that same woman will meet at a coffee shop and don't fck a guy for 3 dates. You get to see them for truly who they are, instead of being led into some obscure lala land of made up things.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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