"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Do do You Spot a Lower-back Injury?

Schwank

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I *think* I may have done a number on my lower back, from doing deadlifts (too much weight, poor form). At the moment I just feel short bursts of mild, intermittent pain. However, I have full mobility; the pain isn't restricting any activities and/or movements in any way. Any ideas what this could be? This pain doesn't correlate with textbook lower-back injuries...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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EFFORT

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Probably tweaked or strained something. Take off from squatting and deadlifting and anything else that causes it pain. Do 2 sets of 50 on pullthroughs with very light weight to rehab it 3 days a week. You can see a sports med doc, they'll most likely give you some stretches, some anti inflams+muscle relaxers, and tell you to stay off it.
 

thedude4242

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Im done with those type of exercises. you can mess up your sac joints and lower back.
 

blinkwatt101

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Dude please please listen to me on this. One of my old lighting buddies cracked a vertebrae and didn't know for awhile. He thought it started off as nothing much just a small pain in his lower back. He kept lifting,he was one of those guys who'd think it was cool to sets of 200+ rowing and 300+ deadlifts for lower reps,like 6 or so. His form wasn't perfect,but it wasn't horrible. He just liked the feeling of it. During the time the pain wasn't too bad so he just kept at it. Then the pain just started getting out of control. the part that cracked off punctured a nerve and he now lost 20% of the feeling in his foot. He also needed extensive surgery that required 4 months of lying on his back. He's back in the gym now and looks good but he now admits lifting heavy was stupid and now lifts for reps of 8+ with pure form.

Go have it checked out.
 
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