What is a Don Juans view on boyfriiends? As in if the girl he wants has one. If its clear he can get her and it seems she wants him to make a move, does he do so? Or is there some sort of code to not hook up with another man's girl? I can understand if you knew him as a friend or respecetd him in some way. But im talking if u dont know him as anything more than "that guys whos keeping you from getting what you want".
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Do Boyfriends MAtter if SHE wants it?????
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
my theory is, if you are better then the man she has, she is usually willing to "upgrade" as most men are.
Then if you are looking for a LTR, that girl you were manage to steal seems already a bit unreliable.Originally posted by backbreaker
my theory is, if you are better then the man she has, she is usually willing to "upgrade" as most men are.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Nicely put. I believe most DJs wouldn't be morally taken aback by this. From my experience, the ones that do had previously been cheated on and/or wouldn't want it to happen to them.Originally posted by backbreaker
my theory is, if you are better then the man she has, she is usually willing to "upgrade" as most men are.
Obviously we all wouldn't want it to happen to us, but not all of us worry about it happening to us. Go with your gut Brando and what you personally are comfortable in doing.
biker_gixxer
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Well, it depends on the person you’re asking. Personally, I'd be all over it. I see it as the 'boyfriend' not doing his job, so she's looking for satisfaction elsewhere, whether it be emotional or physical. I'm not saying I go around looking for women in unsatisfied relationships, but if they come knocking on my door...
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
daffydikless
Don Juan
So if a girl isnt getting the "emotional" needs from her bf, your going to become her emotional tampon...
sounds to me like your getting the raw end of the deal if you go with that philosophy.
If all she does is moan and groan about her problems and her boyfriend's issues, you my friend aren't nothing more then an emotional tampon.
sounds to me like your getting the raw end of the deal if you go with that philosophy.
If all she does is moan and groan about her problems and her boyfriend's issues, you my friend aren't nothing more then an emotional tampon.
Also watch out for the bf, he may be the jealous type, work at the post office, and collect semi-automatic handguns...
It is fun, and it is exciting.. I know, I have been there.. but if you get caught with your pants down, it can be bad...
Many murders are the result of jealosy, so... it is worth it?
Dietzcoi
It is fun, and it is exciting.. I know, I have been there.. but if you get caught with your pants down, it can be bad...
Many murders are the result of jealosy, so... it is worth it?
Dietzcoi
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Actually it's either because they marry someone who they realize doesn't meet their expectations or one of them has stopped living up to their expectations. There is fault but the external stimuli is nothing more than the catalyst. It is seldom if ever the cause.Originally posted by DJ_Dork
This is why Americakkkans have 50% divorce rate.