What is a Don Juans view on boyfriiends? As in if the girl he wants has one. If its clear he can get her and it seems she wants him to make a move, does he do so? Or is there some sort of code to not hook up with another man's girl? I can understand if you knew him as a friend or respecetd him in some way. But im talking if u dont know him as anything more than "that guys whos keeping you from getting what you want".
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Do Boyfriends MAtter if SHE wants it?????
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
my theory is, if you are better then the man she has, she is usually willing to "upgrade" as most men are.
Then if you are looking for a LTR, that girl you were manage to steal seems already a bit unreliable.Originally posted by backbreaker
my theory is, if you are better then the man she has, she is usually willing to "upgrade" as most men are.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Nicely put. I believe most DJs wouldn't be morally taken aback by this. From my experience, the ones that do had previously been cheated on and/or wouldn't want it to happen to them.Originally posted by backbreaker
my theory is, if you are better then the man she has, she is usually willing to "upgrade" as most men are.
Obviously we all wouldn't want it to happen to us, but not all of us worry about it happening to us. Go with your gut Brando and what you personally are comfortable in doing.
biker_gixxer
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Well, it depends on the person you’re asking. Personally, I'd be all over it. I see it as the 'boyfriend' not doing his job, so she's looking for satisfaction elsewhere, whether it be emotional or physical. I'm not saying I go around looking for women in unsatisfied relationships, but if they come knocking on my door...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
daffydikless
Don Juan
So if a girl isnt getting the "emotional" needs from her bf, your going to become her emotional tampon...
sounds to me like your getting the raw end of the deal if you go with that philosophy.
If all she does is moan and groan about her problems and her boyfriend's issues, you my friend aren't nothing more then an emotional tampon.
sounds to me like your getting the raw end of the deal if you go with that philosophy.
If all she does is moan and groan about her problems and her boyfriend's issues, you my friend aren't nothing more then an emotional tampon.
Also watch out for the bf, he may be the jealous type, work at the post office, and collect semi-automatic handguns...
It is fun, and it is exciting.. I know, I have been there.. but if you get caught with your pants down, it can be bad...
Many murders are the result of jealosy, so... it is worth it?
Dietzcoi
It is fun, and it is exciting.. I know, I have been there.. but if you get caught with your pants down, it can be bad...
Many murders are the result of jealosy, so... it is worth it?
Dietzcoi
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Actually it's either because they marry someone who they realize doesn't meet their expectations or one of them has stopped living up to their expectations. There is fault but the external stimuli is nothing more than the catalyst. It is seldom if ever the cause.Originally posted by DJ_Dork
This is why Americakkkans have 50% divorce rate.