Is it just me, or do Asian women seem to be more socially awkward? From my personal experience, Asians make up the majority of my rejections and encounters that had indicators of disinterest, even though they are a minority of the ladies I've approached.
For example, here are three recent "rejections" (in quotes because I'm not sure whether they were rejecting me per se or whether they were just being awkward, but that's beside the point):
1. August 2008 - I was in college, and there was this Asian girl who seemed to be very good at the piano. I went to compliment her, but she immediately said she had to leave, which she did. I didn't think much of it as I assumed that she had homework, etc.
But when I saw her in the rec room again, she immediately stopped playing and walked away. She was walking very fast, too, as if she was trying to get the hell away from me.
2. Three months ago - there was this intern from Boston that worked in the same building as me. She wasn't that hot, but my friends kept telling me that she could make great friends, so I figured, what the hell.
I tried to make small talk with her, but her responses were always very curt. The last time I talked to her, she absolutely made no response. Even her friend, who is normally much more talkative, also gave me the silent treatment.
3. One week ago - there was this Asian girl (who works in a different building) that I sometimes see on the bus. I tried to talk to her a few weeks ago, but she was on her phone at that time. I saw her again last week, but when I talked to her, she just kept looking at her phone (I'm pretty sure she was not in the middle of a call this time) and not saying a single word to me. It was very awkward to be keep talking her and not getting any response, so I bailed out.
What do you guys think of these situations?
For example, here are three recent "rejections" (in quotes because I'm not sure whether they were rejecting me per se or whether they were just being awkward, but that's beside the point):
1. August 2008 - I was in college, and there was this Asian girl who seemed to be very good at the piano. I went to compliment her, but she immediately said she had to leave, which she did. I didn't think much of it as I assumed that she had homework, etc.
But when I saw her in the rec room again, she immediately stopped playing and walked away. She was walking very fast, too, as if she was trying to get the hell away from me.
2. Three months ago - there was this intern from Boston that worked in the same building as me. She wasn't that hot, but my friends kept telling me that she could make great friends, so I figured, what the hell.
I tried to make small talk with her, but her responses were always very curt. The last time I talked to her, she absolutely made no response. Even her friend, who is normally much more talkative, also gave me the silent treatment.
3. One week ago - there was this Asian girl (who works in a different building) that I sometimes see on the bus. I tried to talk to her a few weeks ago, but she was on her phone at that time. I saw her again last week, but when I talked to her, she just kept looking at her phone (I'm pretty sure she was not in the middle of a call this time) and not saying a single word to me. It was very awkward to be keep talking her and not getting any response, so I bailed out.
What do you guys think of these situations?
