“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Do any of you actually have the balls to do this?

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Gamers lend support to widow of heroic developer

Brian Wood spent his life thrilling millions of faceless gamers, but his last moment was spent saving the lives of those he loved most.

Wood, a 33 year-old lead designer at popular game developer Relic Entertainment, was on his way back to his Washington home when his wagon was struck by an oncoming Chevy Blazer being driven by a 21 year-old woman believed to be driving under the influence. With his pregnant wife Erin in the passenger seat, Wood swerved his car to put himself directly in the path of the oncoming SUV -- a decision that ultimately cost him his life, but protected his wife and unborn child from harm. Two other passengers riding in the backseat of the Blazer were also killed.

"All the policeman say that if we had hit the car head-on all of us would be dead," Erin Wood told The Province. "At the very last second (Brian) braked really hard and turned right so that he would be put in the path of the SUV and not me and the baby, and that is the only thing that saved us both."

"He was always sacrificing himself for me and the baby," she added.

But while Wood's impossibly brave act left a permanent void in the life of Erin Wood, the same people who Brian strived to please with his work have returned the favor with a striking show of support for his bereaved widow.

A memorial trust was set up within days of the accident. Countless game developers, journalists and fans posted links on Twitter and Facebook, leading to literally thousands of supportive comments, messages and financial donations, prompting Wood to send an open letter to the gaming community to popular game blog Kotaku.

"Brian always told me about how close-knit and wonderful the video game community was, but I had no idea until this tragedy just how special a group it really is," she writes. "From all the articles and comments, to the emails and donations, I am simply stunned and so touched by the love, kindness, and generosity shown to me and my family."

At the time of his death, Brian Wood was working on Company of Heroes Online, a free-to-play version of Relic’s award-winning strategy game. It's currently in open beta-test.

To help Erin, please visit the Brian Wood Memorial Trust.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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As a father I would have done the same thing for my kid. Once when my daughter was 2 she jumped in the pool and couldn't swim, her aunt wasn't watching her like she was supposed to, I just happened to come out to the pool to check on them and saw her go under, I dove in without thinking. In those situations, you don't think, you act. That's how a man lives and how a man dies for his children. I got nothing but respect for the guy, that's a good death.
 

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It's a natural reaction to swerve away from an oncoming car. It's not really known what his thought process was other than trying to avoid the oncoming vehicle. People tend to place virtues on the deceased and put a positive spin on a tragedy. Also I suspect there is an element of women and children first in this story. I'm not saying it's wrong so much that it is attribution more than fact.
 

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samspade said:
To do which - swerve our car or donate money to a memorial trust? I assume you're referring to the former.

It's not really a question of having the "balls" to do it. Parental investment exists in fathers as well as mothers.



This is to be commended if true. But how does the reporter know the father wasn't miserable and looking for a way out of living with his nagging wife and spoiled brat kid? How do they know he knew what he was doing at all when he attempted to dodge the oncoming car?
He does not have a spoiled brat kid....considering his child is not born.
 

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This is why you as a male prepare for this by buying an SUV that is so big, heavy and monstrous that everyone else dies in an accident except for you and your family. Its the American way.
 

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Duffdog said:
This is why you as a male prepare for this by buying an SUV that is so big, heavy and monstrous that everyone else dies in an accident except for you and your family. Its the American way.
And pray that your *bigger than sh1t* SUV does not attract an 18 wheeler on the interstate..
 

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Duffdog said:
This is why you as a male prepare for this by buying an SUV that is so big, heavy and monstrous that everyone else dies in an accident except for you and your family. Its the American way.
LOL you got me laughing here so hard - can't stop!!!
 

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Nope, don't have the balls to end up married with kids.
 
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