"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do alpha males pay for sex?

SOG_85

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I would say that it depends on what you want to get out of sexual interactions with women. If you like the "thrill of the hunt," you might not like escort arrangements. If all you want is to have sex, then this might be a good way to do it. Like people who like to hunt wild animals. They work all year to get ready for a 6–8-week hunting season when they can get meat that they could easily and quickly buy at a butcher shop. In other words, it seems like everything that happens before and after a kill is just as fun as the kill itself.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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mrgoodstuff

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It seems you havent seen too much girls in real life. Your statement doesnt apply everytime with every girl.
Lol wow. I've been in plenty. And no its not 100%. Someone with those thoughts under the surface is more likely to act upon it with enough alcohol to buzz them. But its not 100% alcohol is a social lubricant and opens people up.
 

ZosoWicca

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Lol wow. I've been in plenty. And no its not 100%. Someone with those thoughts under the surface is more likely to act upon it with enough alcohol to buzz them. But its not 100% alcohol is a social lubricant and opens people up.
Ok, as a "social lubricant", I agree.
 
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