"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Do all PUA gurus teach the same general principles?

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Meaning: self-improvement, being the prize, demonstrating value, kino, neg hits, etc? Do some stress being high-value and others stress just making women think you're high-value whether you really are or not? Do they all use NLP to some degree? Are there any that are good for guys who need help with thinking, talking, acting more masculine? Guys who never really matured emotionally beyond adolescence, and need help with a lot more than just game? Is there someplace on this forum where someone can look at the various teachers that are out there and decide which would be the best for them? And also the cost of the various bootcamps?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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War Against Betaism

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The problem with all of these dating gurus is that none of them are naturals. They're probably some out there that I don't know about, but for the most part, these guys were all like us at one point and are students themselves. You want to learn from the naturals, not the students. There is one guy that has helped my inner game more than anyone else and he's as natural as you can get. His name is David X. He has a seminar out there but I have a book that is basically the seminar in book form and it's so much better. I read it every night to remind myself of his teachings.

There's another book that really helped me turn things around, and you know what? It's not even a seduction guide. It's called "How To Make Great Conversation And Small Talk" by Sean McPheat. The most important part of a relationship with anyone, not just women, is communication. And you know what? Most of these dating gurus have failed going over this aspect of game. The first 20 pages of this book just blew me away.
 

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All you need to know is be a man. Only thing you need to know.
 

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First off they're not guru's, 99% are just a bunch of d1ckheads out to make a buck off nerds and goobers.
 
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