"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
WesCottII
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jiza101
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Classic :cheer:
Capt.Jack Sparrow
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Yay! He's got it! :woo:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
PrimetimeDeliverance
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I took one of those a while back,
Make sure you check your mirrors, use your blinker, and most importantly...
STOP at a Stop Sign... don't just roll through it.
Generally just drive like your dad is sitting right next to you...
Ready to ***** slap you for doing something bad in his car.
PrimetimeDeliverance
Don Juan
Wear a HAT. The examiners are always looking to see if you are checking your mirrorss and blind spot (according to them, you are supposed to look each couple of seconds). If you haven't got these habits yet, wear a hat and it can make your life easier (harder for them to see where you are really looking).
Another thing... usually they follow the same route, so if you have a friend who's recently taken the test.. ask him to tell you where they go and get a feel for the route beforehand.
GlutusMaximus86
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
familyguyfan
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Yeah, I did mine through a private company when I took driver's ed. Driver's ed is a requirement for you to get your license here, and at the end of the course, the driving test was included. It was basically the same thing we were doing before, except he didn't tell me if I was doing anything wrong.