"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJ's....set me a challenge

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Guitar_Whizz

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Hey DJs, you will recall I recently posted about my 2 weeks of 77 approaches etc. Well, I've come to the point of wanting a new challenge in my DJing, so I'm going to ask you guys to set me a crazy challenge. It could be anything from asking girls out in really quiet places where everyone can hear me, it could be way crazier, I need some ideas really. You could challenge me to do 100 approaches inside a week, forcing me to approach groups, I dunno.

So DJs, set me a BIG challenge, and I'll set myself about doing it, and I'll post my results. It will be a few weeks before I start though, as I've got a lot going on in my personal life, but I want to inspire you guys.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DankNuggs

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In spire us by going out every day and starting conversations with hot girls your attracted to...It isn't an 'us' vs 'them' type of situation. If you did 77 approaches, you must have a pretty firm handle on how to start a good conversation. Do that, secure dates, get laid, get gf's


and then come back here and tell the newbies how easy it is once you change your mindset.....
 
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seduce your mother ... as if you can't come up with anything yourself :/
 
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