"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DJ's - is this just a small tactic girls use to increase their scarcity (& value)?

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Asked a girl if she wanted to go out on a date on either Wednesday or Thursday of this week.

She sounded hyped over the phone, and said that she was "Excited" about three times. Also said that it sounds fun and she's looking forward to it.

At the same time, she mentioned that she will have to get back to me on locking down whether Wednesday or Thursday is good for her. I've never had that happen before where a girl delayed committing to plans I brought forward. At the start of the call she mentioned that her week was relatively free.

I don't doubt that she'll call me back to confirm. It's only been a few hours since I asked her. Just curious if this is one of those "play hard to get" tactics that girls often use on guys.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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IF she didn't pick one right away, you aren't on the top of her priority list.... She's waiting to see what comes up more exciting than you on those days and then she will shunt you off to the other day.... UNLESS she really has to check her schedule and calls back the same day...
 
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again stop dating sluts ask thy hoe to come over they place to chill and watch a movie. make move on thy ***** if she comes over. if she dont respond hit thy ***** again with same offer in two weeks. if the snatch was good take out for a drink then take thy ***** back to your place.
 
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No problem. She said she was going but wants to make sure which day no problem you offered her a option and she going to let you know which works best for her. She should get back with you quickly though.... if she strings this along too much you should get her to commit to a date or take the offer away. Don't be a jerk about it just let her know you want to spend time with her but you have to makes plans.

The only caution I can give is that you should NEVER judge a woman by what she says ONLY what she does. The fact that she said 'excited' three times is not that important if she said yes and made specific plans on the spot.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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feh , you should say you did another plan since she didn't bother to answer you, and don't bother inviting her again.
im' betting she will say its ok to you on wed hours before, if she says anything at all
 
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