"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJs: going dowtown on 1st date?

Ricky

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I am not one to ever have one night stands

They always end up being at least 2 weeks!

But seriously, I don't eat out girls the first night i meet them all the time.

Yes it's happened before but not normally.

In fact I'm a bit of a traditionalist, normally I'm not looking for the same night lay. I have done it my share of times but it's not my normal approach.

My normal way is the following

1) Meet girl, build good rapport and kiss close with number and e-mail

2) E-mail her for a bit (I do this to see if my initial impression was right). If a girl has high interest she'll play e-mail tag with you for awhile. Normally I'm too busy to schedule a date right away anyways

3) Call her and set up a date

4) See how the date goes. If all goes well, f close her that night. I can wait at least for 3 dates though.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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