“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DJ's go solo and have no friends

SealTeamSix

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I absolutly agree with ELVIS ...

Older you get you meet people and 'friends' with them more selectively.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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interesting insights...

i don't think anyone is saying to throw away "good friends" for some chick..i'm not doing that..
these "friends" are negative with respect to all facets of my life (not just girls) ...

i think david deangelo said to associate with positive people..
and i believe in that also...
 

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My post made it seem I like I ditched my mates but squirrels you are 100% right a real man will influence change in others but currently i'm still straightening myself out and with them I was going backwards and really just taking baby steps not even...

I hope I can influence them, one in particular is very bold with woman and should do well my actuall best mate is very resistant to any change fear dominates him in ALL areas but he's in another part of the country for 4 months (uni) as they say I will try to shake him to the core!!
 

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Some of my best friends I knew as PUAs first and friends later. Only one bloke I knew before we actively started sarging. It was like joining an elite fraternity with common goals. Now some of the frat brothers aren't people you'd want to normally associate with in real life, but others are straight up cool guys that I'm glad are good friends and hunting brothers.

We do all the things that PUAs do like help each other, wing with each other, critique one another, and give advice as well as do what best friends do like joke around, wrestle, make dumbass jokes, hang out and crash at each other's place.
 

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Having good friends is good but if I'm alone and see a HB, I'm not going to pass her by because my buds aren't with me, that's way too AFC.

So why is it necessary to have a wing with you to sarge women anyway?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JT47319

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
So why is it necessary to have a wing with you to sarge women anyway?
Ever sarge a 6 set of hotties solo? I've done it, but I was pouring on some serious high octane, high energy material to the point I was getting exhausted interacting WITH EVERY SINGLE GIRL. At some point you have to isolate and that's where your wing comes in.
 

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Originally posted by JT47319
Ever sarge a 6 set of hotties solo? I've done it, but I was pouring on some serious high octane, high energy material to the point I was getting exhausted interacting WITH EVERY SINGLE GIRL. At some point you have to isolate and that's where your wing comes in.
Yeah, I've been there and done that (it was actually a college women's vollyball team). But my point is that I would approach them whether or not I had a wing. Yes, I agree that things are usually easier with one but turning down a possible opportunity just because you're solo isn't the way of a DJ.
 

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I find most of my friends are in the same boat as me (sci-fi fans...go figure), but I use the basis of the DJ bible and method to elevate THEM to be better men.
 

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Originally posted by #1 P.I.M.P.
I don't know if your talkin bout me here, but in my case I didn't dump my friends in fact we still talk, but we just drifted appart. What i'm saying is that's friends come and go and life is full of people and options, U will always make new friends. Almost evry week I make new ones.
Nah I was talking to the topic poster. It's a different story for you and your friends to drift apart, rather then all of a sudden totally dumping them for some pvssy.
 

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Yeah, this has been said afew times already.. but it's important. Everyone should realise that TRUE friends are VERY hard to find.

When i found this site, i got really ****y & confident & felt that i would make loads of friends & i'd be one of the most popular people around. But, like 'Elvis aint dead yet' said, most people you meet become acquaintances rather then friends.

TRUE friends, that you have a real conection with, & feel truely comfortable enough to talk about deeply personal things, & have a special bond with... These people are very hard to find.
This kind of friendship should be cherished.

i found this out the hard way when i abandoned one of my old friends, & now we'll never speak to each other ever again. Thats the ONLY true thing that i regret in my life.

Don't make this kind of mistake. Don't take friendship for granted.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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