She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Ever sarge a 6 set of hotties solo? I've done it, but I was pouring on some serious high octane, high energy material to the point I was getting exhausted interacting WITH EVERY SINGLE GIRL. At some point you have to isolate and that's where your wing comes in.Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
So why is it necessary to have a wing with you to sarge women anyway?
Yeah, I've been there and done that (it was actually a college women's vollyball team). But my point is that I would approach them whether or not I had a wing. Yes, I agree that things are usually easier with one but turning down a possible opportunity just because you're solo isn't the way of a DJ.Originally posted by JT47319
Ever sarge a 6 set of hotties solo? I've done it, but I was pouring on some serious high octane, high energy material to the point I was getting exhausted interacting WITH EVERY SINGLE GIRL. At some point you have to isolate and that's where your wing comes in.
Nah I was talking to the topic poster. It's a different story for you and your friends to drift apart, rather then all of a sudden totally dumping them for some pvssy.Originally posted by #1 P.I.M.P.
I don't know if your talkin bout me here, but in my case I didn't dump my friends in fact we still talk, but we just drifted appart. What i'm saying is that's friends come and go and life is full of people and options, U will always make new friends. Almost evry week I make new ones.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.